Friday, October 30, 2009

harley davidson exhaust

My official HD parts book lists the rocker arms to have numbers 17360-66a for the rear exhaust and front intake and number 17375-66a for the front exhaust and rear intake. These numbers are not the same as the ones I have. ...Not being one to leave well enough alone, or at least not to let a good running stock bike alone, I started looking for a new exhaust system. My.Fiddlin' with the Sporty today I noticed something... The flange that holds the rear exhaust pipe/coupling at the rear head is loose. Really loose.I just found some used Python III slip-ons on craigslist. They have a few scratches and are used (apparently) for only $30. They were on a '08 sporty.Its apparent to me, that the later model bikes are not being detailed in the traditional harley style, such as the butt ugly exhaust on the F that wraps around the engine, key relocated to the Asian bike position to make a nice eye sore ...I have read on this site that true dual exhaust systems have no back pressure, so you lose some torque and horsepower. If I purchase V&H header pipes and use my V&H basic slip ons, will that stop the horsepower/torque loss? ...6 speed gear box...new tires...600$ mustang seat... over 12000 dollars in parts n chrome....570 ss gear drive cams...feuling lifters... mikuni carb.... scrm-e air ... python 3 exhaust /$$snake skins.... built motor ,flowed heads. ...Hi, My name is bill and I just got my first Harley Sporster,, She is a 1987 xl1100, the previous owner performed the following mods,, 21 inch front. ... screamin eagle carb , screamin eagle air cleaner, vance / hines exhaust,, modest amount of chrome parts... I love her already.. I have to get a 23 tooth front sproket and new chain,, ordered it today,, Thanks for havin me ... Im from PA and love riding.. Be Safe all!! chat_max is offline ...GOT PAINT? Don't be scared. We haven't lost tradition...... we've gained technology! 2004 VRSCA Two-tone Smokey Gold with Vivid Black SE 16G Double Barrel Exhaust SE Airfilter 99.9% Pure Harley Davidson. sammy is online now ...This is a brand new, never installed upper (for rear cylinder) heat shield for Big Shot Staggereds. Fits 91-05 Dyna Does not fit 06 and later Dyna Fits exhaust system number 17911 $ ... Harley Davidson Community ...
The inventor of the Harley-Davidson motorcycle, Arthur Davidson , died and went to heaven.....

At the gates, St. Peter told Arthur. 'Since you've been such a good man and your motorcycles have changed the world, your reward is, you can hang out with anyone you want to in heaven.'

Arthur thought about it for a minute and then said,

'I want to hang out with God.'

St. Peter took Arthur to the Throne Room, and introduced him to God.

God recognized Arthur and commented, 'Okay, so you were the one who invented the Harley-Davidson motorcycle? '

Arthur said, 'Yes, that's me...'

God commented: 'Well, what's the big deal in inventing something that's pretty unstable, makes noise and pollution and can't run without a road?'

Arthur was a bit embarrassed, but finally spoke, 'Excuse me, but aren't you the inventor of woman?'

God said, 'Ah, yes.'

'Well,' said Arthur, professional to professional, you have some major design flaws in your invention!

1. There's too much inconsistency in the front-end suspension

2. It chatters constantly at high speeds

3. Most rear ends are too soft and wobble about too much.

4. The intake is placed way too close to the exhaust .

5. The maintenance costs are outrageous!!!

'Hmmmmm, you may have some good points there,' replied God, 'hold on.'

God went to his Celestial supercomputer, typed in a few words and waited for the results.

The computer printed out a slip of paper and God read it.

'Well, it may be true that my invention is flawed,' God said to Arthur, 'but according to these numbers, more men are riding my invention than yours'.


Ok, I wrote an introduction to this quesiton that was longer than some books, so I just started over because otherwise I'd never get any answers 'cause the intro was longer than the freaking question itself. I'll try to keep it "to the point", but I have always had trouble with that. I ramble. I'm a rambler and I rant. I'm a ranter, putting in millions of details that have nothing to due with the topic. OK - my dad buys his second motorcycle as he is wanting to get into riding. I have been riding every year weather permitting for 13 year and I know my way around a bike pretty good. I have never owned a harley davidson, only Yamaha's and kawasaki's. The first bike my dad bought was a Kawasaki. He's been taking riding lessons from me for free, and he also signed up for a course at our local community college that is taught by guys who've been riding for centuries, and they'll teach him things that even I don't know. So one day we are driving and there's a sparkling clean sportster (1200 XLH) sitting on the side of the road ("for sale sign clearly visible"). I call the number and offer the guy $3000 as it's a 1990 and has 15,000 miles on it, although the bike is FLAWLESS and loaded with aftermarket shiny things, although all moving parts are stock. He accepts. I tell him that it's actually my dad who is interested and I'll have him call back later. He does, and sets up a test ride (to be performed by me) the next day. We go, I ride (I ALWAYS ALWAYS ALWAYS wear a helmet), but I didn't on this test ride because I had to be able to hear EVERYTHING IN THE ENGINE, ETC. So I ride for about 10 minutes and the bike is in such incredible condition I just can't believe it. I report back and dad agrees to buy it on the spot. The next day he pays the guy and get's the temp tag and insures it. Tonight I went down and picked it up. While we were in the guys large and spotless garage, fully equipped with about 10 motorcycles, 3 cars, and 4 toolbenches, I didn't see the expected accompanyment of tool kits. So I figure he outsources his maintainence. Ok. I turn the fuel switch to "on" from "off", and all of a sudden the bike is literally purging the entire tank of gas out of what appears to be a 1/4 inch rubber hose that someone had threaded between those iconic thin metal bars that run vertically from the crankcase up each side of the cylinders. The hose STARTS at the bottom of the air filter, although I don't thing it has anything to do with it and runs up direcly to the "OFF/ON/RESERVE" switch. So I quickly switch it off, and it stops leaking. The seller is horrified because he's already been paid and we haven't even taken possession yet, 2. The bike didn't do this when I rode it the day before, and 3. his dog bit my dad in the ass when he went over to pay him (and my dad is a lawyer, "bad combination of events"). So we spend 40 minutes trying to figure out first of all what the hell that hose is anyway.... Why is it now leaking fuel copiously, and was it originally connected to something else? did it become disconnected? Next I decide "ok, let's take it just outside of the garage, fire it up with the switch on "off", then turn it "on", which we did, and it still pissed fuel all over the ground. By this time I'd removed it from it's previous position up against the base of the outside of the lower part of the block (too hot for rubber hose, obviously), and I'd zip-tied it so it wouldn't touch the exhaust either. Ok, WTF!!!!???? So, in a last ditch attempt to just GET IT HOME, I decided to clamp it off. Between the 2 of us we decided to use a paper clamp (not clip, CLAMP), those black things with the little silver handles to open and close them that can be used to pinch other people for fun at the office. We also screwed a screw of slightly larger diameter than the inside of the hose into the end of it, and...... drumroll... IT STILL LEAKED, SOMEHOW, but to a lesser degree. He followed me home and the performance of the bike was severely compromised. I had to keep it revved at stop signs and it felt like it was missing on one of the cylinders occasionally. SO: WHAT IS THIS HOSE, WHAT IS IT'S PURPOSE, AND WHAT'S IT SUPPOSED TO DO? IS IT SUPPOSED TO BE HOOKED TO SOMETHING? IF SO, WHAT? PLEASE. I WILL RECANT ALL MY YEARS OF RIDING JAP BIKES IF SOMEONE WILL PLEASE TELL ME HOW TO FIX THIS PROBLEM. Otherwise, I'm going to have to pay someone to do it and they might die of laughter from how stupid I am that I couldn't figure it out on my own. This bike is beautiful and I'm really hoping that it doesn't reinforce the rumor that Harley's are hanger queens (which is the only reason I hadn't bought one myself prior to this bike). I know that there is someone out there who can answer this in the blink of an eye. Also the oil/filter and plugs haven't been changed in friggin' trillions of years so I'm going to do that as soon as I can get the right plugs for it. I bought a case of 4 cycle bike oil about 3 years ago and I still haven't
used it all, so this oil change should finish it off. That maintainence I can do myself, but if I end up having to take the bike to my mechanic to have this hose thing figured out, I'll just have them change the plugs/oil/filter. Well, that about does it. If I remember anything else I'll post an update. Thank you all in advance for your help. I'm sorry I'm such a dumb-ass but this is my first Harley and I'm still basically a Harley virgin so I haven't found the g-spot on them yet. Thx, john in Iowa


2009 harley needs a great exhaust sound and who knows what works the best.


Ok basically me and some friends installed a new short ram intake with a nice filter and a new exhaust and 3a racing muffler. My car sounds louder than a fucking harley davidson and actually sounds great not like a fart cannon P.O.S. Ohhh yea and some new Platinum +4 spark plugs. I haven't told my parents yet and I want to try and be quiet should I drive down the hill on the way home and not hit the gas at all? or should I tell them and take the punishment if there is any. I think my dad might drive it tomorrow so should I just tell him I put a tip on it or what?
i might make a video and put it on Youtube. but yea the problem is NOT THE MUFFLER you ppl i just had a friend install a new racing muffler that's why it is even louder lol. I like it but it sounds like a harley on steroids so it is definitely noticable. the intake also makes it louder as well as the exhaust. I just don't want to wake up the whole fucking town everytime I drive by their house lol


i've seen tons of regular plain old iron 883's out there for sale but im looking to buy one with some minor custom work. im looking for something with drag bars for sure and not stock exhaust. but other than that stock or would it just be better for me to buy a new one and put those on myself i guess i'd rather just go the easy way.





Wondering if I did this, which would change the exhaust, if I would need to get the bike recalibrated. I'm wanting a little bit more sound out of my bike as the reason for possibly doing it. Is there any chance that doing this could have negative effects on my bike? Thanks


Okay im 18 years old and I have been riding motorcycles since i was 6 and I have owned many motorcycles the last one i owned was a 2005 honda cbr 600rr racing with a carbon fiber two brothers racing exhaust power comander everything it was fast i had it about 180mph but the question is im intrested in buying a harley davidson buell blast and the blast is obviously the smallest one but I want to know if anyone thinks I wouldnt like it i mean i stunt ride alot and love the corners and i hear there amazing at that I dont really care about the speed difference but Im just wondering if you think I would like it plus it looks pretty comfty for me and my girlfriend to ride...but outta curiousity what is the blasts top speed???


I have a 2003 f150 harley davidson truck. It has the supercharged 5.4L engine. I already have the K&N filter and am working on the exhaust system but want to get a programmer first. I have been looking it the edge evo and diablo predator. I will run the 93 octane performance program all the time and am not too worried about gas. I just want performance. If yall have any personal experience with either or any different programmers, any information will be greatly appreciated.


Old man Harley (who invented Harley Davidson's) dies. So he get's up to heaven and he's standing outside of the pearly gates when St. Peter walks up and says,"Hey, aren't you old man Harley? You invented Harley Davidson moter cycles didn't you?" Old man Harley agrees that he did. St. Peter says,"Well of course you get in! And we think a lot of you around here, so you pick anyone you want to see and talk to and I'll make it happen." So old man Harley thinks about it and says,"I've always wanted to meet God, and talk to him for a bit." St. Peter says,"Done, follow me." So St. Peter leads him into heaven up these long stairs in the clouds and up to God's office. Old man Harley steps into God's office and see's him sitting on his throne. God looks down to see who his visitor is and says,"Well, aren't you old man Harley who invented the motorcycles?" Again old man Harley agrees and then adds,"And aren't you the guy who invented women?" God looks a little confused but answers yes. Old man harley says,"Good invention. But I noticed some flaws in your design." God says,"OH, and what are they" Harley says,"Well, the intake is way too close to the exhaust for one. Two, they tend to chatter, and Three the ass end wobbles at high speeds." God sits and thinks about that for a minute, then leans over to his computer and starts typing. Once his printer had printed what he was working on, he looked at the paper and said to the old man,"Your right, my invention dose have it's flaws, but statistics show that more men ride my invention than yours."


LOL!!


I have a few

Harley-Davidson: The most efficient way to convert gasoline into noise without the adverse side effect of horsepower.

Did you know 95% of all Harleys are still on the road?
The other 5% actually made it home.

Is it true that Harleys are chick magnets?
Yes, but only if the chick has a steel plate in her head.

What's the cheapest way to get another 50hp from your Harley?
Trade it in on a Kawasaki.

Why don't Harley riders sit on their bikes when the sidestands are down?
They're afraid to lean over that far.

What's the difference between a Harley and a Harley owner's home?
The Harley costs more and has fewer wheels.

How do you now you're riding a Harley?
While coming off an exit-ramp you get passed by a Vespa.

Why don't Harley riders wave at sportbike riders?
Because they don't want to drop their tools.

How do you know all the aftermarket parts you bought for your Harley are worth the money?
You finally break into the 15's in the quarter mile.

Where can you find the world's largest collection of Harley jokes?
At Sturgis

What do you call a group of Harley Owners with a collective IQ of 120?
Sturgis!

How do Harley engineers tell if a bike is worthy of the Harley name?
They check to make sure the exhaust noise in decibels exceeds the horsepower rating.

Why don't Harley owners smile?
Once you realized you got conned into paying $25,000 for an outdated piece of $#!+ would YOU be smiling?

What's the difference between a Harley Davidson and a vacuum cleaner?
The location of the dirtbags.

Why do Harleys have fringe?
So you can tell if they're moving.

How do you know your Harley is handling great?
You can almost keep up with the logging trucks when you're riding in the
canyons.

How is a Harley Davidson like an old dog?
They both like to ride in the back of pickup trucks.

What is the difference between a Harley Davidson and an old dog?
The dog can get in the back of the pickup by itself.

Why couldn't the Harley mechanic repair the doorknob?
Some things just can't be fixed with only a hammer and a rope.

What's the difference between a Harley taken to Daytona on a trailer and one that's being ridden there?
The one on the trailer is going about 30mph faster.

Why do all Harley owners have trailers??
So they can go around corners faster!

You know you're a Harley rider if...

....you're unable to let your bike simply IDLE at a stop light.

....you confuse the word "character" with the more accurate term
"engineering flaws."

...."water cooled" means standing on the side of the road, in the rain, waiting for a your buddy to come in his pickup truck.


I have a 79 fxs-80 that I bought about 7 months ago. It has shotgun pipes and the guy I bought it from said he took the kick arm off because it would hit the pipes. I need to find an arm and pedal that I can operate without impacting the exhaust. Anyone have suggestions?


Just bought a 2008 HD 1200 sportster. I don't care for the stock exhaust and love the "Screaming Eagle II" that some of the neighbors run. However, they don't make them any longer. Does anyone know of something sounding close to these. I am told the new "Screaming Eagle I" does not even compare. The "Python" is way too loud.
E-bay has several Screaming Eagle II for "Softtail". Does anyone know if these will work on my 2008 1200 Sportster. Called the dealer and they can't seem to answer even when I provide the part number.


1200 nightster with 1243 miles rhinehart exhaust stage 1 kit and forward control


What I mean is won't the current owners of the big twin HD Bikes be looked upon in a negative matter that they are the leading cause of wasting fuel, contributing to pollution and global warming?
Everybody else is driving fuel efficient cars and trying to save the planet from destruction, but the Harley Davidson bikes that get maybe 25 MPG and spit out toxic C02 mixed with oil from the exhaust.
Will there be protests where people will take sledge hammers and smash those horrible HD's?


The smell from the exhaust was horrible!
I was starting to get light-headed and after the ride was over I had a splitting headache.


Should I sell my 2003 Harley SportsterXL1200C for $7600?(with only 500 miles!), in order to get a classic car (probably a 70's Corvette)?

Here's what my bike has...
2003 Harley Davidson Sportster 1200C 100th Anniversary Edition
Only 500 miles!!!
Gorgeous Blue, with 100th Anniversary Logo on gas task
Mint condition, custom exhaust, bike sounds and looks great!


There are thousands of motorcycles in San Diego alone and this stupid "Harley Davidson" drivers with the so call 'screamer eagle' exhaust pipes driving down the streets making so much decibels that hurt people ear drums to the point of giving a headache, imagine what is doing to the little babies ears?! This is so inconsiderate I think the second hand smoke from a cigarette is just as bad to the little ones. I can not express in words except for maybe @^&(*%)+# sons of #&*@!+'s that want to feel like men but can't they are just noise makers no good for %&*$t. What do you think?!.


the motorcycle is a 2009 harley davidson you can see the rivets from the back of the bike


Its not as loud as a harley davidson


I just bought and picked up my 2009 Harley Davidson Dyna Super Glide Custom in blue pearl. Now after about 500 miles i'm going to change the stock pipe. I'm considering the V&H Big Radius 2 to 2 pipes. There going to run me about $650 but I like the slick style and the sharp ends. Right now i'm content witht the power, but i want to crank up the volume and get that mean badass harley sound. With a Screamin Eagle heavy breather, and some V&H Big Radius 2 to 2 pipes will the bike be rumbling.... I also plan to put 12.5" mini apes on the bike which i'll probablu do before anything but Right now those 3 things are as far as my budget goes. I know you can buy fuel packs etc but I'm limited to what I can spend. So with a Screamin Eagle heavy breather, V&H Big radius, and some mini apes will that fit well on the bike? Any suggestions? Mabe forget the heavy breather and add a fuel pack or something like that, IDk help me out....


Just wondering if the Screamin' Eagle has a deep thunderous rumble sound or if it's a more high-pitched popping sound, kind of like a machine gun. Thanks!!!
To flattrack, it's a simple question. if all you have to do is sit on yahoo answers and troll all day, you should consider getting a job and quit mooching off the government. I didn't know how else to describe was I was trying to ask...if that offends you, get over it!


This has been happing for months and the car has lacked to quit running so im encouraged that it may be something simple. He's not much of a fixer and im hoping i can fix the problem simply. a bad smell comes from the exhaust when started as well. please help


Metal or meet ?

The inventor of the Harley-Davidson motorcycle, Arthur
Davidson , died and went to heaven.
At the gates, St. Peter told Arthur. 'Since you've been
such a good man and your motorcycles have changed the
world, your reward is, you can hang out with anyone you
want to in heaven.'
Arthur thought about it for a minute and then said, ' I
want to hang out with God.'
St. Peter took Arthur to the Throne Room, and introduced
him to God.
God recognized Arthur and commented, 'Okay, so you were
the one who invented the Harley-Davidson motorcycle? '

Arthur said, 'Yeah, that's me...'
God commented: 'Well, what's the big deal in inventing
something that's pretty unstable, makes noise and
pollution and can't run without a road?'
Arthur was a bit embarrassed, but finally spoke, 'Excuse
me, but aren't you the inventor of woman?'

God said, 'Ah, yes.'
'Well,' said Arthur, 'professional to professional, you
have some major design flaws in your invention !

1. There's too much inconsistency in the front-end suspension
2. It chatters constantly at high speeds
Most rear ends are too soft and wobble about too much
4. The intake is placed way too close to the exhaust
5.The maintenance costs are outrageous!!!!

'Hmmmmm, you may have some good points there,' replied
God, 'hold on.' God went to his Celestial supercomputer,
typed in a few words and waited for the results.
The computer printed out a slip of paper and God read it.
'Well, it may be true that my invention is flawed,' God
said to Arthur, 'but according to these numbers, more men
are riding my invention than yours'.


I have access to a set of Harley Davidson Screaming Eagle Exhaust.. but Im not sure if it will fit on a V-Star 650


Not referring to that bolt on abortion designed for the European market. I mean Dual carbs, forward facing exhaust, etc, like they did in '83? There is such a demand, even a bolt on kit would be hugely well received. They didn't sell well then because people were too blown away by obscenely fast Rice rockets. Mert Lawill produces a limited number at a resultingly high price. Baisley heads toy with the idea- with good results, from what I have heard- but still, after all these years, nothing substantial and affordable.
Ninebad, we all know that one as being the most obvious answer but I was referring to an American Icon, for better or worse and something that is a great deal of fun to drive in spite of everything else. Remember that when you don't have an icon you must resort to any 'cheap' trick in mass production, not that this is necessarily an easy or meaningless thing to achieve- something that has even extended into Harley clones. I merely think that an American V-twin is sweet, for its' own sake and wouldn't mind some obvious, been-around-for-a-while upgrade that is much desired to happen some time.
By all means ride your Japanese motorcycles.
#3, wait a minute, I own two Buells, a Norton, and several two stoke Jap bikes that whoop ass- don't confuse me with what you merely presume to be.


I have a 2008 nightster, and have added screaming eagle exhaust and air intake. i was told i will probably have to have it tuned for the bike to work properly. Has anyone used the efi tuner from hd? how easy is it to use? Does it work good? Any other brands that would work as well?
thanks for any info.


Cranks up and runs fine cold, but when it gets warmed up it runs very rough (kind of like a harley davidson) the check engine light comes on and black smoke comes out of the exhaust. I replaced the entire exhaust system, as well as put in a K&N air filter. Please help. Is it the computer? What's going on with this?


Marriage

A man and a woman, who have never met before, but are both married to other people, found themselves assigned to the same sleeping room on a transcontinental train. Though initially embarrassed and uneasy over sharing a room, they were both very tired and fell asleep quickly, he in the upper bunk and she in the lower.

At 1:00 AM, the man leaned over and gently woke the woman saying, "Ma'am, I'm sorry to bother you, but would you be willing to reach into the closet to get me a second blanket? I'm awfully cold."

"I have a better idea," she replied. "Just for tonight, let's pretend that we're married."

"Wow! That's a great idea!" he exclaimed.

"Good," she replied. "Get your own damn blanket!"

After a moment of silence, he farted


Harley Davidson

Arthur (Harley)Davidson, died and went to heaven.

At the gates, St. Peter told Arthur, "Since you've been such a good man and your motorcycles have changed the world, your reward is, you can hang out with anyone you want in Heaven."

Arthur thought about it for a minute and then said, "I want to hang out with God."

St. Peter took Arthur to the Throne Room and introduced him to God.
God recognized Arthur and commented, "Okay, so you were the one who invented the Harley Davidson motorcycle?"

Arthur said, "Yep, that's me."

God said, "Well, what's the big deal in inventing something that's pretty unstable, makes noise and pollution and can't run without a road?"

Arthur was apparently embarrassed, but finally he said, "Excuse me, but aren't You the inventor of woman?"

God said, "Yes."

"Well," said Arthur, "professional to professional, you have some major design flaws in your invention:

1. There's too much inconsistency in the front-end protrusions;
2. It chatters constantly at high speeds;
3. Most of the rear ends are too soft and wobble too much;
4. The intake is placed way too close to the exhaust;
5. And the maintenance costs are enormous!"

"Hmmm, you have some good points there," replied God, "hold on." God went to His Celestial super computer, typed in a few words and waited for the results. The computer printed out a slip of paper and God read it.

"Well, it may be true that my invention is flawed," God said to Arthur, "but according to these numbers, more men are riding my invention than yours."


Anti-Sleep Treatment

One day Mrs. Jones went to have a talk with the minister at the local church. "Reverend," she said, "I have a problem, my husband keeps falling asleep during your sermons. It's very embarrassing. What should I do?"

"I have an idea," said the minister. "Take this hatpin with you. I will be able to tell when Mr. Jones is sleeping, and I will motion to you at specific times. When I motion, you give him a good poke in the leg."

In church the following Sunday, Mr. Jones dozed off. Noticing this, the preacher put his plan to work. "And who made the ultimate sacrifice for you?" he said, nodding to Mrs. Jones.

"Jesus!", Jones cried as his wife jabbed him the leg with the hatpin.

"Yes, you are right, Mr. Jones," said the minister. Soon, Mr. Jones nodded off again. Again, the minister noticed. "Who is your redeemer?" he asked the congregation, motioning towards Mrs. Jones.

"God!" Mr. Jones cried out as he was stuck again with the hatpin.

"Right again," said the minister, smiling. Before long, Mr. Jones again winked off. However, this time the minister did not notice. As he picked up the tempo of his sermon, he made a few motions that Mrs. Jones mistook as signals to bayonet her husband with the hatpin again.

The minister asked, "And what did Eve say to Adam after she bore him his 99th son?"

Mrs. Jones poked her husband, who yelled, "You stick that goddamned thing in me one more time and I'll break it in half and shove it up your ass!"

"Amen," replied the congregation.




and do you think there should be noise pollution ordinances regulating them and other loud vehicles?


The inventor of the Harley-Davidson motorcycle, Arthur Davidson , died and went to heaven.

At the gates, St. Peter told Arthur. 'Since you've been such a good man and your motorcycles have changed the world, your reward is, you can hang out with anyone you want to in heaven.'

Arthur thought about it for a minute and then said, ' I want to hang out with God.'

St. Peter took Arthur to the Throne Room, and introduced him to God.

God recognized Arthur and commented, 'Okay, so you were the one who invented the Harley-Davidson motorcycle? ' Arthur said, 'Yeah, that's me...'

God commented: 'Well, what's the big deal in inventing something that's pretty unstable, makes noise and pollution and can't run without a road?'

Arthur was a bit embarrassed, but finally spoke, 'Excuse me, but aren't you the inventor of woman?'

God said, 'Ah, yes.'
'Well,' said Arthur, 'professional to professional, you have some major design flaws in your invention!

1. There's too much inconsistency in the front-end suspension
2. It chatters constantly at high speeds
3. Most rear ends are too soft and wobble about too much
4. The intake is placed way too close to the exhaust
5. The maintenance costs are outrageous!!!!

'Hmmmmm, you may have some good points there,' replied God, 'Hold on.'

God went to his Celestial supercomputer, typed in a few words and waited for the results.

The computer printed out a slip of paper and God read it.

'Well, it may be true that my invention is flawed,' God said to Arthur, 'but according to these numbers, more men are riding my invention than yours'.


I have a 06' Harley Davidson Night Train with the 88 cubic inch and 5-speed trany, with only 2,834 miles on it. so far I installed a Thunder Header exhaust and a power commander and a after market air filter .I want to install some high performance parts in the engine (internal parts) what is the best cam to install in a 88 cubic inch Harley motor?


Arthur Davidson, of the Harley Davidson Motorcycle Corporation, died and went to heaven. At the gates, St.Peter told Arthur, "Since you've been such a good man and your motorcycles have changed the world, your reward is, you can hang out with anyone you want in Heaven."
Arthur thought about it for a minute and then said "I want to hang out with God."
St. Peter took Arthur to the Throne Room, and introduced him to God. Arthur then asked God, "Hey, aren't you the inventor of woman?"
God said, "Ah, yes."
"Well," said Arthur, "professional to professional, you have some major design flaws in your invention:
1. There's too much inconsistency in the front end protrusion.
2. It chatters constantly at high speeds.
3. Most of the rear ends are too soft and wobble too much.
4. The intake is placed way to close to the exhaust. And finally,
5. The maintenance costs are outrageous."
"Hmmmm, you may have some good points there," replied God, "hold on."
God went to his Celestial super computer, typed in a few words and waited for the results. The computer printed out a slip of paper and God read it.
"Well, it may be true that my invention is flawed," God said to Arthur, "but according to these numbers, more men are riding my invention than yours."


Arthur Davidson, of the Harley Davidson Motorcycle Corporation, died and went to heaven. At the gates, St.Peter told Arthur, "Since you've been such a good man and your motorcycles have changed the world, your reward is, you can hang out with anyone you want in Heaven."

Arthur thought about it for a minute and then said "I want to hang out with God."

St. Peter took Arthur to the Throne Room, and introduced him to God. Arthur then asked God, "Hey, aren't you the inventor of woman?"

God said, "Ah, yes."

"Well," said Arthur, "professional to professional, you have some major design flaws in your invention:

1. There's too much inconsistency in the front end protrusion.

2. It chatters constantly at high speeds.

3. Most of the rear ends are too soft and wobble too much.

4. The intake is placed way to close to the exhaust. And finally,

5. The maintenance costs are outrageous."

"Hmmmm, you may have some good points there," replied God, "hold on."

God went to his Celestial super computer, typed in a few words and waited for the results. The computer printed out a slip of paper and God read it.

"Well, it may be true that my invention is flawed," God said to Arthur, "but according to these numbers, more men are riding my invention than yours."


I started to listen to a song on the radio (classic rock genre) and a song came on. For various reasons, I couldn't listen to the song. But it started with only a drummer drumming what sounded to be a hot rod or a Harley engine. (you know, the real deep "potato potato potato" exhaust). I had heard the song before, meant to remember it b/c I liked it, then forgot.

I know this is really vague and kind of oddly detailed, but any ideas let me know. Thanks!


I have a harley davidson 883 sportster. 1997 model.
It intermitently back fires through both the exhaust and carb.


I've just obtained a Harley Davidson and the pipes are badly weathered and have rust ALL over them. I'm new to motorcyles and know little about this kind of stuff. What is a good way to remove lots of rust from the chrome on the exhaust pipes?


there's a number 5 next to the foot brake does anybody know what it means? Recommendations on exhaust for my 2008 harley nightster


The inventor of the Harley-Davidson motorcycle, Arthur Davidson , died and went to heaven.

At the gates, St. Peter told Arthur. 'Since you've been such a good man and your motorcycles
have changed the world, your reward is, you can hang out with anyone you want to in heaven.'

Arthur thought about it for a minute and then said, ' I want to hang out with God.'

St. Peter took Arthur to the Throne Room, and introduced him to God.

God recognized Arthur and commented, 'Okay, so you were the one who invented the Harley-Davidson
motorcycle? '
Arthur said, 'Yeah, that's me...'

God commented: 'Well, what's the big deal in inventing something that's pretty unstable, makes noise
and pollution and can't run without a road?'

Arthur was a bit embarrassed, but finally spoke, 'Excuse me, but aren't you the inventor of woman?'


God said, 'Ah, yes.'

'Well,' said Arthur, 'professional to professional, you have some major design flaws in your invention !
1. There's too much inconsistency in the front-end suspension



2. It chatters constantly at high speeds


3. Most rear ends are too soft and wobble about too much




4. The intake is placed way too close to the exhaust
5. The maintenance costs are outrageous!!!!





'Hmmmmm, you may have some good points there,' replied God, 'hold on.'

God went to his Celestial supercomputer, typed in a few words and waited for the results.

The computer printed out a slip of paper and God read it.

'Well, it may be true that my invention is flawed,' God said to Arthur, 'but according to these numbers, more men are riding my invention than yours'.





the American Motorcycle association reported that the Oakland California police department has decided to equip each of it's 45 harley davidson motorcycles with after market exhaust systems. Most of the officers complained that they do not "feel safe" on the quiet new bikes. So the new exhaust systems are now rated at 93 decibels, well above the mandatory stock 80 decibels (federal limit) and illegal under California state law as well.
Well, magz looks like your still acting like an immature little kid. Why can't you give a real answer instead of acting like a 10 year old. Made up? no, I told you where the info came from The american motorcycle association, you know, the national group that represents what you allegedly ride!
Good one Scott M, but it's not the cops breaking the law, it's the city of Oakland.
Ironic though isn't it?
Slipknot, Piggies? that went out in the 60's. As for helping or not, I can only say that I bought a new bike and took it out, it had VERY quiet pipes. I had a gal in a cage right beside me, with my front wheel even with her front door as she was slowly passing me on the right. She had her cell phone to her left ear,blocking her vision. She drifted right over into me. Almost the exact situation occurred after I replaced my stock slipons with louder ones. But this time I was passing her, she had no doubt at all that I was beside her and corrected back into her lane instantly. But "sound" isn't the only reason I change pipes on my bikes. Improved MPG, more HP, and less heat, as well as burning cleaner are just a few reasons why.


Arthur Davidson, of the Harley Davidson Motorcycle Corporation, dies and goes to heaven. At the gates, an angel tells Davidson, Well, you've been such a good guy and your motorcycles have changed the world. As a reward, you can hang out with anyone you want to in Heaven."

Davidson thinks about it and says, "I wanna hang out with God, Himself." The angel at the Gates takes Arthur to the Throne Room and introduces him to God.

Arthur then asks God, "Hey, aren't you the inventor of Woman?"

God says, "Ah, yes."

"Well," says Davidson, "you have some major design flaws in your invention:

There's too much front end protrusion
It chatters at high speeds
The rear end wobbles too much, and
The intake is placed too close to the exhaust."
"Hmmm..." replies God, "hold on." God goes to the Celestial Super computer, types in a few keystrokes, and waits for the result. The computer prints out a slip of paper and God reads it. "It may be that my invention is flawed,"

God replies to Arthur Davidson, "But according to my computer, more people are riding my invention than yours."




My mini bike is really loud and the exhaust tips are not whats causing it, i have a 2003 harley davidson mini bike and i have taken off the exhaust pipes to try and quiet it down and it hasn't worked. It's the engine and i dont know how to make it more quiet. Anything you can mix with the gas mixture?

SPECS-
49cc
50:1 ratio gas/oil
Goes about 30-35 mph
2 stroke motor
I hear a loud almost like a dirt bike sound....i took off the fancy dancy pipes because i thought that was making the noise. but the noise is still coming from the opening, so it's not the pipes.



Thanks to those answers. I am lookin at buying after-market pipes from a guy qho has a 97 n I have an 05, just wanted to make sure they would fit my bike...


Arthur (Harley)Davidson, died and went to heaven.

At the gates, St. Peter told Arthur, Since you've been such a good man and your motorcycles have changed the world, your reward is, you can hang out with anyone you want in Heaven.

Arthur thought about it for a minute and then said, I want to hang out with God.

St. Peter took Arthur to the Throne Room and introduced him to God.
God recognized Arthur and commented, Okay, so you were the one who invented the Harley Davidson motorcycle?

Arthur said, Yep, that's me.

God said, Well, what's the big deal in inventing something that's pretty unstable, makes noise and pollution and can't run without a road?

Arthur was apparently embarrassed, but finally he said, Excuse me, but aren't You the inventor of woman?

God said, Yes.

Well, said Arthur, professional to professional, you have some major design flaws in your invention:

1. There's too much inconsistency in the front-end protrusions;
2. It chatters constantly at high speeds;
3. Most of the rear ends are too soft and wobble too much;
4. The intake is placed way too close to the exhaust;
5. And the maintenance costs are enormous!

Well, it may be true that my invention is flawed, God said to Arthur, but more men are riding my invention than yours.


what is the mpg for a big Harley Davidson, not that it matters, the exhaust note compensates for all, but just out of curiosity, what's the mpg for a tourer Harley....or any Harley with an engine around the 1500 mark.


im looking for a loud exhaust system for my car. I want it to be loud. I don't want it to be annoying loud like those big fat exhaust pipes that teenagers put on. I want an exhaust system thyat is loud and that sounds like i have a hemi in it. I like the exhaust sounds from like the new strong mustangs, or harley davidson f-150 and a bunch of others. Any good sites to look for good loud exhaust systems?


I am noticing load popping from the exhaust while trying to maintain a steady speed and also a huge lose of power like the motor is starving for fuel.


after this short passage

Arthur Davidson, of the Harley Davidson Motorcycle Corporation, dies and goes to heaven. At the gates, an angel tells Davidson, "Well, you've been such a good guy and your motorcycles have changed the world. As a reward, you can hang out with anyone you want to in Heaven." Davidson thinks about it and says, "I wanna hang out with God, Himself."
The befeathered fellow at the gates takes Arthur to the Throne Room and introduces him to God. Arthur then asks God, "Hey, aren't you the inventor of Woman?" God says, "Ah, yes." "Well," says Davidson, "You have some major design flaws in your invention: One, there's too much front-end protrusion Two, it chatters at high speeds. Three, the rear end wobbles too much. Four, the intake is placed too close to the exhaust."

"Hmmm..." replies God, "hold on." God goes to the Celestial Supercomputer, types in a few keystrokes, and waits for the result. The computer prints out a slip of paper and God reads it. "It may be that my invention is flawed," God tells Arthur Davidson, "but according to My Computer, more people are riding my invention than yours."


The Test. . .

Arthur Davidson, of the Harley Davidson Motorcycle Corporation, died and went to heaven. At the gates, St.Peter told Arthur, "Since you've been such a good man and your motorcycles have changed the world, your reward is, you can hang out with anyone you want in Heaven."

Arthur thought about it for a minute and then said "I want to hang out with God."

St. Peter took Arthur to the Throne Room, and introduced him to God. Arthur then asked God, "Hey, aren't you the inventor of woman?"

God said, "Ah, yes."

"Well," said Arthur, "professional to professional, you have some major design flaws in your invention:

1. There's too much inconsistency in the front end protrusion.

2. It chatters constantly at high speeds.

3. Most of the rear ends are too soft and wobble too much.

4. The intake is placed way to close to the exhaust. And finally,

5. The maintenance costs are outrageous."

"Hmmmm, you may have some good points there," replied God, "hold on."

God went to his Celestial super computer, typed in a few words and waited for the results. The computer printed out a slip of paper and God read it.

"Well, it may be true that my invention is flawed," God said to Arthur, "but according to these numbers, more men are riding my invention than yours."

exhaust manifolds

Anyone know where I might find a pair of center dumps with the T4 style flange or the like. In the interest of hood clearance I would like to replace.Exhaust manifolds. again, different depending on models, but seem to have a slight advantage over previous engines. looks like they spread a bit more, as well as clearer ports and possibly larger midpipes than the older hemi's." ...I can't find anywhere about the limits of a stock 2g exhaust manifold. The reason I ask is because I was wondering if I was shooting myself in the.It could also be a leak between the exhaust manifolds and the block since there isn't a gasket between them from the factory. Look for soot around the flanges at each cylinder. Mine were leaking and the dealer's shop installed gaskets ...Nicson fe ford bb marine exhaust manifolds - $350 (tacoma) Parts Spam...........68-74 318 manifolds............$20.00 ea.................thanks...kim..........kindersle y, sask........As the title states 2 each Sr20det Exhaust manifolds, ebay specials. PRICE: 100 Or best offer Contact name: Mitchel owens Contact: PLEASE CALL ME : 609 504 5854.My turbo boost came back and can feel the power again. Here is wher I got new manifolds you have to look up right and left side part numbers exhaust manifold #1652L On edit, I removed inner fender well and tire for easy access ...Brand New Exhaust Manifolds: Part no. A910E2155K or D.The critical first step is cleaning up the intake and exhaust manifolds, making sure the mating surfaces are flush and replacing the gaskets with proper ones. It's quite common for the stock gaskets to be cut "wrong" for these engines, ...
I have a 350 V8 that has a heat riser on the exhaust. I need to replace the exhaust manifold but the bolts are too short on the new manifold so was wanting to know if it was necessary to replace the heat riser when I put the new manifold in or can I leave the riser out. Will it be detrimental?


just got a 1998 buick regal 3.8 supercharge it had a cyl 1 misfire got that fixed and it still runs like shit. 2day was running it and the exhaust manifolds got glowing red could that be a bad egr or clogged cat. converter? it runs smooth but when giving it gas the performance is shitty


Engine Performance problem
1991 Toyota Pickup 4 cyl Four Wheel Drive Manual 47000 miles

I have a 91' toyota pickup, I have no power when its being driven in 2nd or 3rd gear, my exhaust manifold will start glowing red, what do I need to do to fix it?


ok 99 Nissan Maxima, auto, 3.0 v-6. 143k, has been skipping for along time now at first only noticeable at stop signs/lights in gear, so i would put in neutral and it would stop. Year or so ago..I replaced spark plugs with OE Platinum NGKS skipping seemed to go away for a few months. Then came back :(

Brought it back to shop and they said my rear valve cover gasket was leaking and that could possibly be causing the the plugs to foul or something? Well at the time i didn't have the money to fix so just let it go for months.

This past July i took it in for state inspection and apparently that valve cover gasket leak was dripping oil onto my exhaust manifold in which could create a fire so in order to get sticker needed it replaced! So had them do the job and change some other gaskets while they were in there too. Got the car back the next day still skipping. They suggested i change the plugs again at that time too but I just didn't have the extra money.

Well needless to say i drove it for 1 day after the gasket/state inspection got done and it was smoking under hood so I called the garage up that did the work and they said most likely it was oil still burning off from the gasket replacement..So i just went with it and continued driving. Day 2 BAM!!! I was getting waved over by a car in front of me driving telling me to pull over and my car was on fire!!!!!! I pulled over fire department came et etc..fire was under car..turned out to be i blew my transmission (no other damage from fire)! BUT Never had any trans problem up until like 5 minutes before i was being told my car was on fire and the problem I noticed before hand was when taking off from stop sign car was very very hesitant...like didn't want to move. but did, then 2 miles down the road fire happened. would've started before i don't know. Had towed back to same shop that had been working on it and they said my trans fluid must have been low and something inside got dry and let loose and blew a hole through transmission..so replaced trans with one from salvage yard last month 105k. So odd because like i said i had no trans issues ever just this SKIP at idle in gear at stops. So just to be extra safe I went ahead replaced spark plugs and all coils (6) coil on plug..$$FORTUNE..Also replaced fuel filter..

OK now what the heck it is still SKIPPING!!!! This skip is ONLY when at operating temperature. When cold runs great and no skip! full power! Also have noticed when taking off from stop car is a little hesitant until it hits that second gear..and honestly the longer the drive the worse the skipping and hesitation gets when taking off from stops..I don't get it???? Even been running 92 octane gas..

I have sunk so much money into this car I can't afford to be paying more shops to not figure this out. I am looking here and hoping for some ideas on what this could be im at my wits end. PLEASE HELP!!! SORRY SO LONG but figured a lot of detail would be best!
Check Engine Light is NOT on..
This car does not have spark plug wires! Its COIL on PLUG only!


i am looking for performance parts for my polo i don't mean tacky rubbish out of halfords and motorworld i mean like
camshafts,
cams,
inlet manifolds,
exhaust systems,
suspension kits

because i typed them in many search engine and all they comes up with is webs site with cheesy chrome gear knobs which is not what im looking for


My 1997 Camaro Convertible RS v6 3800 series II engine seems to be really loud. I think it might be an exhaust flange leak. Because when working on it, I had broken one of the two bolts holding the exhaust flange to the ex manifold (on both flanges, I had broken one bolt off each). So now the exhaust flanges are being held up by one bolt on each manifold instead of two.

I am wondering if that could cause an irregularly loud engine, and a significant loss in power and gas mileage.

P.S. What I was working on is removing one of the cyl heads to take it to the machine shop and then re-installing it. This had involved of course taking out the ex manifold. If that makes a difference


READ CAREFULLY! IT'S TRICKY!

1975 Plymouth Duster 5.9 360 4bbl

Recently, this car has had a head gasket replacement about 4 weeks ago. She ran fine and everything (high revs, small drives). Until tonight where I started her the first time today she started leaking antifreeze through the exhaust manifolds right away! Antifreeze kept spewing out of the manifold to the exhaust clamp. *(no leaks from the manifold to the block).

I thought the head gasket blew again or a cracked head. Well, there is no water in the oil, the oil is fine. The temp is normal.

*TRICKY PART*
Started her again about 10 mins later, NO LEAKS! Nothing! No white smoke from the exhaust and she ran fine. I only let her stay at idle for 2 min.

WHAT IN THE HELL HAPPENED? I am so confused.
Remember, she was a cold block and first time started it, it was leaking. So it doesn't need to warm up if she cracked or blew a gasket running cold.


and still have back pressure and be sound legal. i need a cheap muffler and i need 2 of them. reall cheap sbc 350 crate engine 1972 k20 chevy lifted 4x4. wanting to run them infront of the trasfercase... possible. trucks straight pipe and i keep getting tickets. whats the cheapest way to quiet it down


hi i brought my vectra (petrol 1.8 16v) in july and i love it. i knew it had problems when i brought it and thats how i got it cause it was cheap. the thing is now i have the advisory for mot and not sure if it is worth putting it through, she is now on 139,345 miles and last mot was 132,079 so put a few on. heres the advisory :::



Advisory Notice issued
Front Brake disc(s) slightly worn (3.5.1h)
Rear Brake pad(s) wearing thin (3.5.1f)
Nearside Rear Brake pipe slightly corroded (3.6.B.2c)
Centre Exhaust has part of the system slightly deteriorated (7.1.1a)
Rear Exhaust has part of the system slightly deteriorated (7.1.1a)
Manifold Exhaust has a minor leak of exhaust gases (7.1.2a)
Nearside Front Upper Anti-roll bar linkage has slight play in a ball joint (2.4.G.3)
Oil leak
O/S/F and N/S/F anti-rollbar upper gaiters split
O/S/F indicator lense missing - not showing white light
Surface corrosion to underbody panels - may require further attention
Accident damage to n/s/r sill and door



the oil leak is not yet major as it is not actually leaking on to the road not too sure where it is though. the accident damage to the door and sill is going to be replaced by new. also was planning on getting a new exhaust (full system) anyway. i would just like a rough idea of wether i should bother moting or scrapping
my beloved vixie lol.

thanks x


Its a heavily modded 05 SRT-4 with 55000 miles. Its in really good condition. I maintain it very well. Ive invested over $12000 in it over the years, and thats beyond the purchase price. I know I wont get it back, but what should I sell it for. Ive seen them go for 14000-16000 with light mods. Let me know what you think.

Some of the mods are:

Electronic Metering and Programming:
-Apexi SAFC II Neo Fuel Controller
-Aeroforce Technology Interceptor Scan Gauge
-AUTOMETER Digital WIDEBAND AIR FUEL RATIO GAUGE
-Autometer ProComp Ultra-Lite 30lb/30hg Boost Gauge
-GReddy Full Auto Turbo Timer

Drivetrain:
-Mopar Performance Short Throw Shifter
-Dana Race CV Axles
-ACT 4-Puck Street/Strip clutch
-Lightweight Flywheel
-AGP Solid Transmission Mount

Engine:
-Forged Internals
-AGP BIG 50 Trim Turbo:
Specs:
- AGP Cast T04E housing 3" inlet 2" outlet
- AGP 50 trim compressor wheel 50lb/min
- T31 4 bolt outlet turbine housing .63 A/F Ratios
-AGP T3 Log-Style Exhaust Manifold
-AGP Big Turbo SS O2 Housing
-AGP SS Dump Tube
-AGP RACE Front Mount Intercooler
-AGP Cool Side piping
-Turbonetics Evolution Wastegate
-Turbonetics Manual Boost Controller
-HKS SSQ blow off valve
-AGP ‘Dog Bone’ Motor Mounts
-AGP 3-Bar Map Sensor
-Ported Intake Manifold
-Iceman 70MM Throttle Body
-Walboro 255lph Fuel Pump
-750cc FIC Fuel Injector Clinic Injectors
-s3 high flow fuel rail
-s3 fuel pressure regulator
-THERMAL R&D 3" Turbo Back Exhaust w/ Hi-Flow Cat. & no Res.
-Injen Performance Intake
-MPX Underdrive Pulley
-Aluminum Oil Catch Can
-Mopar 10mm Plug Wires
-MSD Ignition
-NGK Iridium Spark Plugs

Misc.:
-8000K PHILIPS ULTRA SLIM ULTINON Bi-Xenon HID headlights (lowbeams and highbeams)
-10000K PHILIPS ULTRA SLIM ULTINON HID foglights
-Dodge Viper Front Seats
-Ceramic brake pads and drilled/slotted rotors
-S-Style Eyelid overlays professionally painted black
-Windows professionally tinted 5%

I recently paid it off. What should I sell it for? How much should I expect to get out of it? The car has been adult driven always and never beat on. Please be specific and list reasons for your answers. Thanks!
Oh and it also has a new Clarion 7 inch touch screen multimedia center (Single Din). Nav, ipod, cd, mp3, dvd, dvdr, ect...


The front bolt to the exhaust manifold has come out because the bolt hole was stripped out. The exhaust manifold leaks and is noisy. How can i rethread the hole in the engine block so it will hold a bolt to keep the exhaust manifold from leaking??


ok how much would it cost to have a shop put true duels from my manifold's to the rear tires like side pipe, coming wright otu behind the doors, what can i be looking to pay, for 2 1/2'' exhuast, and how much just to keep it the stock exhaust size


Just finished up installing my cylinder head and intake manifold as well as fuel rail on my 1993 Toyota Camry 2.2L. Installed the intake camshaft as well. I was ready to install the exhaust camshaft, but read online about the service bolt as well as in the manual, but the manual never stated why it was necessary. After further reading online it stated that the service bolt prevents the gears from unwinding and causing the cam to be out of time when removed. When I removed the camshafts I never placed a service bolt in the exhaust camshaft (should have now!). I never noticed the cam unwinding when I removed it from the cylinder head. I had the cylinder head and both cams to a machine shop for reconditioning. After carefully looking at the exhaust cam now I notice the do line up, but there is hole and something line a pin that are a off a bit out of alignment. Does the pin and hole have to line up? Looks like it would fit if the one gear was turned about 1/8 turn or so.
Wondering if anyone here has and answer to this.
Any suggestions would be greatly appreciated.


i have a 2000 acura integra gsr stock.
stock=170hp
i want to try and break 250 before putting a turbo..
any good ideas to help me? so far i got this....opionions will be very appreciated.

Exhaust- Apexi World Sport full catback exhaust
Headers- Megan Racing Headers
Cold Air Intake- AEM Cold Air Intake V2
Intake Manifold- Skunk 2
Exhaust- Apexi World Sport full catback exhaust


the pipe that comes off the exhaust manifold get red on my z24 cavilier?


I had a small puddle of oil in the indentation on the manifold the other day (right underneath the carb on the passenger side). And oil has leaked on both sides of the engine block, down to the spark plugs. I was told by someone on here that the valve cover gaskets need to be replaced. I also have a crack in the driver side exhaust manifold which I have had since I had the truck. Now I’m wondering if it is still valve cover gaskets since I found oil in the manifold. I cleaned around the edge of the manifold and I found old silicone between the manifold and engine.
I also have a pretty bad power steering leak, but it’s leaking mostly on the curb. So I am not sure of the exact location of the leak. I checked around the power steering box and I can’t find anything.
I understand it is difficult to answer mechanical questions over the internet, but I would really appreciate someone with some know-how to give me their input on this. And how much labor I’m looking at.
Thanks in advance for taking the time to read these run-on questions. I greatly appreciate all relevant help.

305 V8
4 barrel carb
dual exhaust


I had a small puddle of oil in the indentation on the manifold the other day (right underneath the carb on the passenger side). And oil has leaked on both sides of the engine block, down to the spark plugs. I was told by someone on here that the valve cover gaskets need to be replaced. I also have a crack in the driver side exhaust manifold which I have had since I had the truck. Now I’m wondering if it is still valve cover gaskets since I found oil in the manifold. I cleaned around the edge of the manifold and I found old silicone between the manifold and engine.
I also have a pretty bad power steering leak, but it’s leaking mostly on the curb. So I am not sure of the exact location of the leak. I checked around the power steering box and I can’t find anything.
I understand it is difficult to answer mechanical questions over the internet, but I would really appreciate someone with some know-how to give me their input on this. And how much labor I’m looking at.
Thanks in advance for taking the time to read these run-on questions. I greatly appreciate all relevant help.

305 V8
4 barrel carb
dual exhaust


The exhaust manifold is cracked, but I repaired it with JB weld and it seems to be holding.


I have a donut on it. My friend said I have to screw it up equally or one side would have a leak. I was wondering is that true? And also I can't see if its is equal. Is there a easy way to screw it up?


Not sure if its anything to worry about or not..but i was checking my valve cover gaskets and happen to look at the transmission and noticed a 4'' crack on it. Anything to be worried about? Its on the part between the exhaust manifold and air filter. 2003 3.8L monte carlo


Okay, I've got a 1996 Dodge Ram B5200 van, 5.2L V8. I pulled the Y-pipe off a 1994, and put it on my van.

It was a snug fit, but air is leaking where the y-pipe bolts to the manifolds. Quite a bit, too. What are my options? I don't believe there is a donut gasket available for these.


Today a friend of mine installed
a K&N cold air intake on my car
and he told me it has an LS6 manifold
and it headers.
my question is
with the K&N cold air kit, the headers, the LS6 manifold, and the loud mouth exhaust system.
approximately how much HP does my car make?
i keep on finding out new things on this car everday.


its a '88 mustang 5.0, original 302 with only a few stuff- e303 cam, bbk ssi-r race series intake manifold, mass air, headers, exhaust. im not sure what type of heads i should use that would go great with my mods?


Will exhaust manifold from BMW E36 318is M44 1.9 fit 1995 E36 318is M42 1.8?
I am referring to RHD models only


i have a 2000 honda civic with a stock d16y7 motor i was wondering if it is possible to swap a b16a1 motor, i found someone with a b16a1 and it comes with engine, trasmission, ECU, Alternator, air conditioning, power steering pump, distributer, intake and exhaust manifolds, down pipe and starter... but what else would i need to do this swap do i need new wireing harness and will the d16y7 motor mounts fit on it this is my first time doing a swap please help


I think I'm gonna rebuild my Chevy 350 small black with these components. This will be a performance motor that will be driven on the street as well as raced at the strip. How much horsepower and torque do u estimate this would make? Also is there anything special I will have 2 accommodate for? Due to all the performance parts. Also what size carburetor would work best on this? I found a good deal on either a 650 or 750 cfm (i can't remember which) and was wondering if maybe 750 would be too large since it will be driven on the street.
Hastings or Seal Power Moly Rings
Federal Mogul flattop Hypereutectic Pistons
Clevite Rod Brgs
Clevite Main Brgs
Clevite Cam Brgs
Melling Hi Volume Oil Pump
Crane Energizer Cam and Lifter Kit: 2000-5000 RPM 272/272 Adv Dur, 216/216 Dur @ .50, .454/.454 Lift 110 Lobe Separation
Cloyes True Roller Timing Components
Pioneer Steel Block Plugs
Felpro Gaskets
Scat Crankshaft (New) (Stock style)
Aftermarket cylinder heads:
Intake Port Volume
190cc
Combustion Chamber
64cc
Intake Valve Size
2.02"
Exhaust Valve Size
1.60"
Valve Stem Dia.
11/32"
Intake Port Size
1.14" W x 2.10" T
Exhaust Port Size
1.4" W x 1.4" T
Max Spring Dia.
1.550"
Exhaust Crossover
No
Plug
Angle
Weight (per head - bare)
20 lbs.
Valve Spring Dia.
1.46" dual
Aftermarket Intake manifold:
Dual plane
Intake Port Dimensions: 1.90"x1.19"
Aftermarket Headers and exhaust will be Flowmaster


should i put headers or manifold on my medium built 350 i was told header because you will get a increase in horsepower im running manifolds now and come to find out there pontiac manifolds on my chevy motor and they dont hook up right and there leaking bad with 2 1/2" y exhaust stock for my firebird i know this is stupids guy but i bought it like that so thanks for the help


Hello, is there something that I could safely spray onto the area where the headers and engine meet that would show I had a leak

like would it suck the air in, idle change, etc....

also what could be used safely without damaging anything?


And exhaust manifold studs broken off, rusted through brake lines, catches on fire, etc. Complain to Consumer Affairs & to National Highway Transportation & Safety Administration , ( NHTSA). I know there are alot of you out there.


I bought a used car about a week and a half ago and it has a crack in the exhaust manifold and have been told that it will not be able to pass smog if i got it checked. I also heard that a dealer cannot sale you a car if it cannot pass smog and that I am legally able to get a refund. Is this true?


the motor goes well, its done 80,000 mls, no smoke, been told it can be the probe {by Vauxall garage] or cat faulty{thats 3mths old at quick fit} vauxall said probe is rusted in exhaust manifold so its capput, quoted £4oo with no guarantee, help. Pte.


I have a rattle in my car engine when i do a cold start
I have tried listening to where is comes from and it sounds like it is coming from the exhaust manifold area.

here are my car details
Make: MITSUBISHI
Model: MIRAGE
Year: 1992
CC rating: 1,298
Fuel type: Petrol
Power: 59kW (yes i know, its not much, but i got the car for free)
I will take a picture of my engine and post the link soon


Hi all, i have a 91 3rd gen maxima and of course the exhaust is all rusted out at the back of the engine. Now, my main question is as per the title, but also how does it work? Is it the rear exhaust manifold that leads to the flexpipe? Im probably way off with my understanding of this, so if anybody can just elaborate briefly how entire exhausts work i'd appreciate that also. Thank you for your time


Im not saying my brother is correct or wrong, but he says my 92 LT! corvette has egr , and i said no it doesn't it has air. Then he told me he see's it on the exhaust manifolds. I believe its air. I went to look for headers, and for the 91 L98 engine, it has egr and air, and the 92 has just air?


i have a 1989 ford f-250 4x4 extended cab and its motor family is the windsor make. what in the hell would cause both right and left manifolds to completely crack all the way around. if i took them off i would have 4 pieces... never seen before in cast iron manifolds know anyone who has a set? thanks..


Okay, exhaust manifold bolts have been broken off in the cylinder head. I know they havet to be drilled out maybe even retapped. It's in a 95 Silverado and it's a 350. Should I take the head off or try and do it while it's still on the motor?


i have a 454 that i'm putting in my 87 camaro that will not fit because the truck exhaust manifolds are to wide. what do i need to get manifolds off of so they will fit. i need something closer to the block something that dumps straight down


I just bought a 1968 Pontiac firebird 400. The car still has the orignial exhaust manifold. I am wanting to make the car sound good and wondering what kind of headers I should go with I am also going with a mild cam. I don't want the car to have an outrageous noise but something very noticeable. Also wondering whats a good muffler to use. I am going to be using the turn down exhaust. another question is to use x pipe or what. I am new to this car stuff and I am looking for the muscle car sound. any info will be appreciated! thanks


While taking the bolts out of my exhaust manifold to change the manifold gaskets I broke a few bolts off. I'm going to have to drill them out and retap them. How hard is this going to be and are there any tips you can give?


I was told my car needs a Donut Gasket.. something about it fell off the Exhaust Manifold or something. I have the 1991 Oldsmobile Cutlass Calais, 2.5L Tech4.

Is this the correct name of this part, that i go into the Auto Parts store and ask for? Some store's computers i like and some i avoid because the computer is confusing... but is it called a "Donut Gasket"?

Thanks


I need the exhaust manifold put back on, the Y-pipe connected, and a flange put on the exhaust pipe to connect it to the Y-pipe.
It's a Chevrolet T.B.I. 350. The exhaust manifold is on the driver's side.


Ok so I am looking for a 6 cylinder car. I have looked into the jetta/golf VR6, and I love the look, but their reviews are mostly negative and they seem to be pretty unreliable.

I have also looked into the honda civic, but I am 6"5, mostly in the legs, and I tried fitting in my friends 02 civic and it didn't work.

What I am looking for is a reliable 6 cylinder car that looks pretty sporty (coupe or 4 door I don't care), and that has a decent amount of room in it.

Modifications I plan on making:
Lower
Window tints
Manifold
Exhaust
Headers
and putting some subs in it.

So, with all that in mind, anyone have any suggestions on a car that fits the criteria above? My cash limit is roughly $10,000 canadian.


I have a truck that I had gotten and it needed a little work. It needed a seal in the motor and in the transmission fixed. Well, to do that they had to take off my Y-pipe because it was preventing the transmission from being dropped. They then preceded to CUT it off instead of unbolting it which means I have to get another Y-Pipe or sleeve it.

Then, for whatever reason they decided to take the exhaust manifold off of the drivers side. There was no reason for this to be done and in the process of taking it off they broke bolts off in my cylinder head and they can not get the exhaust manifold to fit back on. So the instructor said that he is going to have to drill out the old bolts and re bore the exhuast bolts.

I don't want them to do anything else to it as I feel they will probably just break something else as he was talking about prying on the exhaust manifold to get the bolts back in. They/he (instructor) and the students obviously are not capable of handling such a situation so WHAT CAN I DO ABOUT THIS?

I understand that it's a state Technical college but that doesn't mean that they can just tear my vehicle up and not have to pay to fix it, does it?

I am a student at the technical college in question. I am going for welding. I signed no such waiver saying that I would not hold them responsible if they broke anything. I asked if he could fix it and he said it wouldn't be a problem. I've since had to invest over $300 for parts that they have broken/lost/stolen.


I have a truck that I had gotten and it needed a little work. It needed a seal in the motor and in the transmission fixed. Well, to do that they had to take off my Y-pipe because it was preventing the transmission from being dropped. They then preceded to CUT it off instead of unbolting it which means I have to get another Y-Pipe or sleeve it.

Then, for whatever reason they decided to take the exhaust manifold off of the drivers side. There was no reason for this to be done and in the process of taking it off they broke bolts off in my cylinder head and they can not get the exhaust manifold to fit back on. So the instructor said that he is going to have to drill out the old bolts and re bore the exhuast bolts.

I don't want them to do anything else to it as I feel they will probably just break something else as he was talking about prying on the exhaust manifold to get the bolts back in. They/he (instructor) and the students obviously are not capable of handling such a situation so WHAT CAN I DO ABOUT THIS?

I understand that it's a state Technical college but that doesn't mean that they can just tear my vehicle up and not have to pay to fix it, does it?
I understand that they are learning but does that give them the right to not have to take responsibilty for what they break? Are they just allowed to break sh*t and not have to worry about the consequences?


I recently bought a 2000 Mustang. The previous owner had to inspected. The mechanic (in a small town) mentioned an exhaust leak from the midpipe just below left exhaust manifold. Said he could patch it up real cheap. Didn't get it done because I'm replacing most of the exhaust system. Took my car in for an oil change today and (for the hell of it) asked Goodyear for a quote on fixing the exhaust leak. They came back saying $500 for parts and labor. Took the car over to the muffler shop to get a custom exhaust system put on. Mentioned the exhaust leak and the guy tells me if it actually is a leak in the exhaust manifold, he'll fix it for $50. If not, all the better. Ever get the feeling your normal mechanic might be taking advantage of you?


(I plan on going to college for something vehicle related but the reputation mechanics have is kind of scary. It's worse when you see the reputation become a reality.)
@Chrys: $275 for stock exhaust manihold + $225 for labor = $500. Yes, I'm well aware of what the costs were for.

@Ironball: I'm not worried about how long the patch will hold. In the spring I plan on looking into long tube headers. I'd rather spend a little to keep it running well through the winter than to pay all that for a new header only to pay more for different headers in 6 months.


k so i have a faulty fuel pump u know sometimes it works n sometimes it doesnt. i wanna replace with a walbro 255lph pump but i wanna know if this is gonna be bad for my car i only have intake and full exhaust headers n cat back, im planning on adding a intake manifold in the future, the question is would my car be better off wit a OEM pump or with the walbro. i want a fast car and i will put a different engine in the future but for now the pump needs to be replaced

thx


a foot away from the exhaust manifolds. without getting the trans hot or my engine... gonna be running ram horn exhaust manifolds and 2 1/2 exhaust dual with thrush welded mufflers


The motor is a 93 chevy 3/4 ton 5.7 TBI. On the exhaust it has the original manifolds that converge into one 3 inch pipe and go to the oxygen sensor then the catalytic converter then finally the muffler. Well I took the cats off and mufflers as well there is about 2 to 3 foot of 3 inch pipe still on there after the oxygen sensor. Which cuts off about where the bed and cab meet. Is this going to hurt anything, Its pretty loud but I like it that way. And yes I know it is illegal to take cats off but we dont have to pass emissions here and frankly I just don't care. I just want to know if it is going to hurt the motor. Thanks!
Reason I ask is some people say that if you don't have enough backpressure then your motor will warp the valves and start smoking and eventually burn your motor up. They said just to make sure to have enough pipe on there.
Actually where I'm from the girl love the ole junky redneck mobiles.


Want to put in a 2 piece header (70MM) and an a like high flow catalytic converter in my 07 Civic SI.

If I replace the stock manifold with a non racing header an replace the stock catalytic converter with a high flow catalytic converter to match my 70MM cat back exhaust an still pass emissions?

i live in MA an have same restrictions as CA. I know a RACE HEADER HAS NO CAT so that wont work. And since the catalytic converter will be in along with the sensors will i pass?

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I have been married a short time and it seems to me like sex and intimacy are completely non-existant for me and my husband and I dont know how to fix it. The reasons behind it may vary and may not be a I think. Its easy to say just seduce your husband or get over it but its not quite so easily done. The circumstances are........before I was with my husband I was completely innocent, I'd never been sexually involved with anyone. My husband and I were sexually active before we married. He had vast experience and is older than me and for a number of years had been using internet sex, porn, random sex as a release but saw it as nothing more than sex.......I believe for my husband there is not an emotional connection during sex because for so long sex has just been about busting a nut. I dont believe he can differentiate between loving sex and sex for sex's sake. He has mentioned before there's some things you just dont do with your wife which I think is rubbish if there's anyone you should be doing it with it's your wife!!. As a married woman theres so many things I haven't experienced that I wish I had, so many times I wish I could just say *&!% it and take the initiative but I dont. I have never spent a day in bed with my husband or woke up naked with him or been kissed properly for no reason or had any type of romance. By romance I dont mean things or flowers or any of that stuff because things like that dont fuss me terribly but it'd be nice to be complimented or feel loved or get suprised anything really....it doesn't happen. I believe I am to blame as well when we met I hadn't been with anyone and had no experience, that does not mean I am a prude, I am open to just about anything but I think because of my history he just doesn't bring anything up, I was initially shy just because it was a new situation for me and maybe that shyness turned him off me. We also have a small child who requires a lot of attention and care often I'm tired although I always make an effort to spend at least some time with my husband every day, but I dont think he see's me past the diapers and milk and crying :-). Sex and intimacy has been lacking in our relationship for so long now that it almost feels useless bringing it up and I miss it I really do. I dont know how to change things around because to be honest I have no experience of anything like this. I dont know if my husband just isn't attracted to me or is out of love with me. Something I keep thinking is when our relationship began my husband done some dishonest things that we have since worked through............it did hurt me a lot though and shattered my confidence, I believe he feels guilty for treating me like that and as a result stays with me through guilt and obligation because he is a good person and doesn't like to see people wronged, he knows how hurt I was and how much I love him and I believe he just doesn't want to hurt me and now we have our daughter he wants to be there for her and be a father, I just dont feel that any of these reasons are enough to stay in a loveless, sexless marriage. I dont know that things can be changed but I took my vows seriously and I love my husband so I would like to try before it gets too late............where do I start?? any ideas?? I have spoken to him about the intimacy and he always says he loves me and our family but things remain the same. I just want a normal healthy relationship, I love my husband and want to be intimate with him.....at some point every day I want to be close to my husband, I want to fall asleep in his arms (preferably after sex!), I want to wake up next to him, I want to kiss him and have a great sex life........but we dont............advice?
sunshine- while I hardly think 2 questions constitutes every other day I do see the point about denial but I did take my vows seriously and it is difficult to make decisions on something so important sometimes different opinions help and I do take all of them onboard.


I need to write comments on these words in a Professional and Positive way!

1. Communication
2. Customer Service
3: Problem Solving
4. Quality of work
5.Initiative/Creativity
6. Technical skills

PLEASE! help me.


How come if I take a little bit more initiative in my relationship with my boyfriend, he says "You scared me with that" Like I'm pretty conservative and pretty shy, but I've gotten comfortable with my boyfriend so I've been willing to show affection more freely. Umm lemme pick a simple example. We made out and I stuck my tongue in his mouth. Usually he does that but I did it and he gave me the "You scared me with that one" answer. Because I'd never done that before. After that he teased me a bunch by doing anything but let me kiss him.

So is that statement good or bad? I'm confused...


Hi

I'm desperate. I was wondering if anyone knew where they sold TV and movie patches in Toronto, Ontario. I'm specifically looking for a few Dharma Initiative patches. I can only find places to order them from the US but I need one ASAP. Any help immediately would be much appreciated.

Thanks!


My guess: eco means ecology. initiatives means taking action. So does eco-initiatives means taking environmental action?


I am doing some research on my grad thesis about human interactions. I am writing a section on intimate boy and girl relationships, since boys are generalized to make the interaction with girls my research is on how girls are now taking initiative in interaction. So what do guys prefer? So example. Guy is looking at girl from across room and they make eye contact and smile, what happens next, do girls take the initiative or guys?





So the Democrats like Obama and Frank were all getting HUGE donations from Fannie and Freddie...Jimmy Carter started the GSE programs, Bill Clinton forced the fed to secure the sub primes and the Democrat Congress under Pelosi.Reid refused to reign them in under the advice of then president Bush and also Mccain.

Barney Franks boyfriend is a lobbyist for Fannie Mae.

But for some reason, most Americans blame Bush...how can this even be remotely logical?

Are Americans really THAT stupid?


The news media have covered the relationship in the past, but there have been no mentions since 2005, according to Nexis and despite the collapse of Fannie Mae. The July 3, 1998, Reliable Source column in The Washington Post reported Frank, who is openly gay, had a relationship with Herb Moses, an executive for the now-government controlled Fannie Mae. The column revealed the two had split up at the time but also said Frank was referring to Moses as his “spouse.” Another Washington Post report said Frank called Moses his “lover” and that the two were “still friends” after the breakup.



Frank was and remains a stalwart defender of Fannie Mae, which is now under FBI investigation along with its sister organization Freddie Mac, American International Group Inc. (NYSE:AIG) and Lehman Brothers (NYSE:LEH) – all recently participants in government bailouts. But Frank has derailed efforts to regulate the institution, as well as denying it posed any financial risk. Frank’s office has been unresponsive to efforts by the Business & Media Institute to comment on these potential conflicts of interest.



While the relationship reportedly ended 10 years ago, Frank was serving on the House Banking Committee the entire 10 years they were together. The committee is the primary House body which along with the Office of Federal Housing Enterprise Oversight (OFHEO) has jurisdiction over the government-sponsored enterprises.



He has served on the committee since becoming a congressman in 1981 and became the ranking Democrat on the committee in 2003. He became chairman of the committee, now called the House Financial Services Committee, in 2007.



Moses was the assistant director for product initiatives at Fannie Mae and had been at the forefront of relaxing lending restrictions at the company for rural customers, according to the Feb. 23, 1998, issue of National Mortgage News (NMN).



“Herb Moses, who helped develop many of Fannie Mae’s affordable housing and home improvement lending programs, has left the mortgage industry,” Darryl Hicks wrote for NMN. “Mr. Moses - whose last day was Feb. 13 - spent the past seven years at Fannie Mae, most recently as director of housing initiatives. Over the course of time, he played an instrumental role in developing the company’s Title One and 203(k) home improvement lending programs.”



Hicks explained in his story how Moses orchestrated a collaborative effort between Fannie Mae and the Department of Agriculture.

“The Dartmouth grad also played a crucial role in brokering a relationship between Fannie Mae and the Department of Agriculture,” Hicks wrote. “This led to the creation of Fannie Mae’s rural housing program where the secondary marketing agency agreed to purchase small farm loans insured through the department.”



While Moses served at Fannie Mae and was Frank’s partner, Frank was actively working to support GSEs, according to several news outlets.



In 1991, Frank and former Rep. Joe Kennedy, D-Mass., lobbied for Fannie to soften rules on multi-family home mortgages although those dwellings showed a default rate twice that of single-family homes, according to the Nov. 22, 1991, Boston Globe.



BusinessWeek reported in its Nov. 14, 1994, issue that Fannie Mae called on Frank to exert his influence against a Housing & Urban Development proposal that would force the GSE to focus on minority and low-income buyers and police bias by lenders regardless of their location. Fannie Mae opposed HUD on the issue because it claimed doing so would “ignore the urban middle class.”



Moses left Fannie in 1998 to start his own pottery business. National Mortgage News called Moses a “mortgage guru” and said he developed “many of Fannie Mae's affordable housing and home improvement lending programs. Moses ended his relationship with Frank just months after he left Fannie.



Even after the relationship ended, however, Frank was a staunch defender of Fannie Mae even as other experts suggested there were serious problems building in Fannie Mae and Freddie Mac.



According to an article by Kathleen Day in the Oct. 8, 2003, Washington Post, Frank opposed giving the Bush administration the right to approve or disapprove business activities that “could pose risk to the taxpayers.” He told the Post he worried the Treasury Department “would sacrifice activities that are


The initiative being that people between the ages of 17 and 21 must either be undergoing some form of education, or employed in some capacity. If they do not fall into one of these categories, they will not receive the govt benefits they currently are entitled to.
What are your thoughts?
Comrade otto, there are no judgements on any comments made on my question. It is simply a question to get people thinking. Thank you to everybody answering today!
Sorry, just another addition here. Low income/no income students are given education by way of Austudy and HECS here in Australia. Granted it wont get you into a high profile private school, however it does get you an education with which you can do with what you choose. Also the initiative offers financial support to those who choose to further their education.
I'm not portraying a for or against stance here, just clarifying a few more facts.


I posted this question before and liberal extremists in Yahoo Answers deleted it as "rant", though the real reason is silencing free speech.

What is a racist anymore? Racist is a term used and abused so often today that it is nearly used as much as "like" is amongst American youth. The hypocrisy is unbelievable!

For instance:
If a white man says the N word, he's a horrible racist. If a black man says the N word, he's cool?

If white and black candidates apply for the same job, the black candidate has to be awarded the job because it would be "racist" to hire the white candidate.

Illegal Mexicans say that it is "racial profiling" to enforce the most fundamental immigration laws. They also believe that they DESERVE freebies just because they have darker skin.

Blacks where I lived would have their bills and food paid for by Welfare just because they were too inept and lethargic to work for their living. Meanwhile, white families that are REALLY in need are being denied FOOD STAMPS!

It is called "racist" to oppose the unConstitutional policies of Barack Obama, yet it was "patriotic" to oppose the EXACT SAME unConstitutional policies of George Bush.

SO, is there really any of that anti-black racism left?? Or is it all is going the other way?

P.S.
And for those who are ignorant, I am a Southerner because I believe in what the South truly stood for, FREEDOM and equality. If you don't have the initiative to investigate that and you still want to vent hate at me, you can get stuffed.
:) surprise surprise, I got another hate answer.

Thank you to those who were mature and composed in their responses.


Each veteran will get a $100 bonus for each month they served, up to $1000.


This will authorize the state to borrow $200 mill.


Ohio's in a $7 billion deficit.

How can the state continue spending money it doesn't have?


I wholeheartedly agree that the vets deserve this bonus,
but are you willing to bankrupt the state for it?



When the state is suffering a deficit of 7 billion..........we shouldn't be spending money on "bonuses."

$500-$1000 isn't going to make or break veteran's retirement.

$200 million.....is a much bigger threat to breaking the state government.


Your thoughts on this?


Please read and answer for my sanity


Dear Johnny,

First of all by you just admitting to all this without rationalizations, excuses or divorce talk has already helped my anger toward you. Thank you. That doesn't mean it's all gone and it doesn't mean I'm ready to jump into anything with you.

I don't have any desire to start over with you yet John. It's taken a toll on me and my emotions big time. I waited and waited for all this shit. I told you I was unhappy and things continued. I told you the only way to save us was for me to get my space and time and be down here while I get my shit together and you get your shit together. That never happened. Us breaking up was inevitable with the past we had.

Yes we had great times, yes we have amazing chemistry, passion and love but John, all that gets buried when anger takes over.

I'm angry at a lot of things.
The past
The lies
The fights
The finances
The irresponsibility
The lack of communication
The lack of understanding me and my needs
The criticism of my life and my choices
The choices you made
And the fact you did take me for granted.

I can't promise anything of our future, to do so would be unfair to both you and me. I need to figure out what I want in life and the things I have been struggleing with for years. I'm not perfect, never claimed to be but I feel like there were way to many issues and I deserved better.

As far as me dating other people, I have zero interest John. I hope you know what I felt for you was sincere and I meant every word but every promise you broke, every day I waited for things to change and every lie/deception you got caught in chipped away at that. Then you would apologize, cry, tell me things would change and I would believe you and trust you and do it ALL OVER AGAIN. This time I can't. I suggest that with your masshealth you see a shrink. See it for yourself and everything you have gone through and are going through. It's free, one hour a week does wonders. It will also show me you are attempting to better yourself and by you bettering yourself WITHOUT me pushing or helping is a HUGE element. I want to be taken care of, I deserve it and I will get it. You can only take care of someone if you take care of yourself first.

I have missed you and I will miss you. I am proud of you for taking initiative and getting things together. When we meet for dinner and you tell me things that are going on I can promise by then I will leave the past behind us but I can't promise anything else.

Please be safe, stay strong and know that this girl wouldn't be emailing you if she didn't care about you or us.

Love


The Northwest Airlines pilots who overshot their Minneapolis destination by 150 miles have prompted the Transportation Department to expand its distracted driving initiative to include "distracted flying.I believe those pilots were having a sex party 10 thousand mile up .What say you ?


My class is going on a school trip on monday. This year, they are doing individual trips(i.e freshmen,sophs,juniors, nd seniors go on trips alone)

I'm not the type to take initiative, so do I ask the girl to hang with me during the whole trip? can I please have some suggestions, me and this girl have been talking for a long time now and I think its time to officially start dating.

What to do?


Where can I find out about this Initiave, Must be Scholarly sources please. Thank You
Sorry I should have added more details to begin with, I need this information for an essay that I have due Thursday. Im not really concerned because it doesnt affect me, Im in college.
Whoahh, calm down. This question was taken in a different direction that I intended it to.
This has nothing to do with what our President has or hasn't done. I know it is barely his first year in office and we need to give him time, but that is not what this question was intended for.
When I stated that it didn't concern me (affect me), its because it doesn't since his proposal is just for K-12.

I am simply asking if anyone knows of any database or something where I can find any scholarly sources regarding this proposal. I have searched for days and have only found 3 & need 7 for an essay I must write for school. I will greatly appreciate it if anyone gives me some good scholarly websites or databases they may now of. Thank You.


You've been assigned by your boss to be the project leader on a major new company initiative. One of the members of your group clearly is not happy with your leadership (in fact, he wanted to be assigned project leader) and has loudly and consistently voiced his objections to many of your decisions. At the last meeting, he directly attacked your credibility by saying "You have no idea what you're talking about. You haven't done your homework. Your actions will make a mess of this entire project." The project is almost finished. You only have two more weeks of meetings. How do you handle this situation? Do you just go on with your work and ignore the bluster and insulting comments, since the project is about over (nonconfrontational style)? Do you assertively seek to put a stop to the comments (controlling style)? Or do you try to have a heart to heart conversation and seek a positive resolution to the tension (cooperative style)?

What would you do?


I have to do some research (homework) on ICAC (Independent Commission Against Corruption) and I need some information on a matter where it has become involved on its own initiative.


I am a 17 year old girl. I weigh 140pounds, and my height is 5feet & 6.5inches. Recently I have gained 10 pounds due to extreme changes in my life. My body has been readjusting for the past two months after I finally stopped taking medication for my ADHD. I have took the initiative to exercise at least 3 times a week. For my exercise, I go to 1 hour long Kung fu / fitness sessions. We do lots of cardio, mixed with muscle building. I take a one day break after each session so my body can heal. At this moment, every single muscle in my body feels bruised when I touch, or move them. Does this mean I did a good work out yesterday? If I continue like this, do you think I will lose weight?


I've had the game Blue Dragon for a while, but I've never really had the initiative to play it until now. I've been getting really involved in it and going through it pretty fast. After countless hours I finally got to disc three. I go to insert it into my disc trey and to my demise there's a dime sized hole in it like I've never seen before! The hole is real precise too, almost like a laser cut straight through it (there are no burn marks though, if any would be created by such an action).

How could this have happened? I've never inserted disc three into my Xbox 360, let alone played the game before until now. I also take really good care of my game discs so I know I didn't cause this (wouldn't even know how to without a laser). I also bought it brand new, it wasn't used.

Also, what can I do about this? I don't really want to have to re-buy the game, but I've had it sitting around for so long that I doubt any warranty I had remains.

Man I am infuriated right now... I hope someone can enlighten me in some way on this situation. Thanks in advance!
I've also searched around for the, may I say, missing piece to the game disc, but my luck has been consistent through the course of this event.
for any moron in here, IT'S NOT THE HOLE IN THE MIDDLE. Hence me playing games for years I think I would know that. The game is UNREADABLE, the hole in the middle wouldn't cause this now would it? Think before posting kid.
I can also provide a picture to anyone who believes I am fabricating this whole story.


This guy and I started talking online a lot. We would stay up until 3am sometimes chatting and webcamming, and we talked on avg probably around 5 hours EVERY day. although he never told me he liked me, he would say things like "i like your smile", "you should put your hair down because i like it that way", "come visit me and cook me a homemade meal" etc, and he was always eager to hang out, making me promise to watch scary movies with him etc. We would call each other and leave each other voicemails almost daily also. So, I started liking him and i thought he was being quite obvious that he liked me also. However, one day he brought up the subject of how we seem to do things normal friends wouldn't do. He then said that he liked me, but maybe we should just try to be normal friends. He then went on to say that we should stop webcamming/calling each other in order to be normal friends. This was definitely not what I was expecting...why did he lead me on so much? I tried to ask him why he just wanted to be friends if he liked me, but didn't really get much out of him except that he wanted to "preserve our friendship". All this time, he was the one taking initiative and leading me on..I wasn't even the initiator! And now he does this to me..and when I asked him why he led me on, he said he didn't realize it. All this is making me so confused. What is the proper response to this?


Culture and arts exchange for Global Peace


I am trying to make a Dharma Initiative (LOST tv show) costume for Halloween but I can't find plain khaki and navy coveralls. :(


i just posted this a few mins back and got practically no responce, so i just cut and paste the exact same thing to re ask.

ok whenever i mention this:

Nevertheless I tell you the truth; It is expedient for you that I go away: for if I go not away, the Comforter will not come to you; but if I depart, I will send him to you. John 16:7

"I have much more to say to you, more than you can now bear" John 16:12

"But when he, the Spirit of Truth, comes, he will guide you into all the truth; for he will not speak on his own initiative, but whatever he hears, he will speak..." John.16:13

"He shall glorify me." John 16:14

"He shall take mine and shall disclose it to you." Jn.16:14

"He will teach you all things." John 14:26

"He will bring to your remembrance all that I said to you." Jn.14:26

"He will bear witness of me" John 15:26

to christians they say its the holy ghost and not Muhammad or any other person.

but if you read carefully you will see that jesus (pbuh) says "It is expedient for you that I go away: for if I go not away, the Comforter will not come to you" so basically jesus is saying he MUST GO AWAY for the comforter to come.

but if we see here:
"When he had said this, he breathed on them and said to them, Receive the Holy ghost." john 16:7
it says here clearly that jesus (pbuh) is telling his people to receive the holy ghost, while he is still ALIVE, but the comforter on the other hand can not arrive until jesus GOES AWAY.

i can add to that....elizabeth had the holy ghost before jesus was born, john the baptist (pbuh) had the holy ghost from his mothers womb and jesus (pbuh) used the help of the holy ghost to do all the great things he did.
and all this happened before jesus WENT AWAY.

so in my opinion the comforter/Spirit of Truth is Muhammad (pbuh)

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everybody is just saying "he is not muhammed he is the holy ghost" but like i put forward my evidence, i want you to now prove me wrong. explain to me why what i said was not true.
just saying its not true does not make it not true.


ok whenever i mention this:

Nevertheless I tell you the truth; It is expedient for you that I go away: for if I go not away, the Comforter will not come to you; but if I depart, I will send him to you. John 16:7

"I have much more to say to you, more than you can now bear" John 16:12

"But when he, the Spirit of Truth, comes, he will guide you into all the truth; for he will not speak on his own initiative, but whatever he hears, he will speak..." John.16:13

"He shall glorify me." John 16:14

"He shall take mine and shall disclose it to you." Jn.16:14

"He will teach you all things." John 14:26

"He will bring to your remembrance all that I said to you." Jn.14:26

"He will bear witness of me" John 15:26

to christians they say its the holy ghost and not Muhammad or any other person.

but if you read carefully you will see that jesus (pbuh) says "It is expedient for you that I go away: for if I go not away, the Comforter will not come to you" so basically jesus is saying he MUST GO AWAY for the comforter to come.

but if we see here:
"When he had said this, he breathed on them and said to them, Receive the Holy ghost." john 16:7
it says here clearly that jesus (pbuh) is telling his people to receive the holy ghost, while he is still ALIVE, but the comforter on the other hand can not arrive until jesus GOES AWAY.

i can add to that....elizabeth had the holy ghost before jesus was born, john the baptist (pbuh) had the holy ghost from his mothers womb and jesus (pbuh) used the help of the holy ghost to do all the great things he did.
and all this happened before jesus WENT AWAY.

so in my opinion the comforter/Spirit of Truth is Muhammad (pbuh)
everybody is just saying "he is not muhammed he is the holy ghost" but like i put forward my evidence, i want you to now prove me wrong. explain to me why what i said was not true.
just saying its not true does not make it not true.


There's this guy who works in a shop that I visit on behalf of my Dad sometimes, I've been going there for like 7 years now and I've always liked the guy who works there. I only go like once a year but I always see this guy when I go.
I kind of think he likes the look of me too as he'll always smile and make small talk with me, He's never mentioned having a girlfriend during our chats. I've always had a boyfriend before but am recently single and I was wondering if I should take the initiative and give this guy my number. Worst case scenario he doesn't get in touch and I'll either have to just get my Dad to go to the shop or find somewhere else that sells the things we need, but how should I do it, and should I do it at all? Guys/girls opinions?


LSAT 165
LSDAS UGPA 3.28
Career Goal/Public Service Oriented PS

Political Science/Philosophy Double Major
UC Santa Barbara
20 hr/wk throughout 4 yrs there
2 internships: one w/ Judge for summer (LOR1); other for 6 months in D.C. working in International Licensing
Volunteer work: not a lot, but did a trip to Mexican orphanage in Ensenada (so vanilla it hurts at this point, i know), and worked for the organization that is trying to turn the wasteland of the old El Toro Air Force Base into a large park and nature preserve.

Financially independent since graduation, although I don't think that will really show on FASFA or anything

Current: 1 yr off between UG and LS; working full time during the week as Legal Assistant at low wage and continue to deliver pizzas on the weekends and at night. Figure this might show initiative to work in industry, even if i'm at the bottom of the totem pole and have to work second job to pay the bills

I know everyone says softs don't matter unless you are some sort of hero, but at least i think i have a decent list



Applying for the Hell of it:
UC Berkeley
UCLA
Texas

Reaches:
Colorado
Emory
Fordham
Minnesota
William & Mary
UCONN
UC Irvine (probably couldn't say 'no' to the scholarship if I got in)
Maryland

Decent/Good Shot:
UC Hastings (reach?)
UC Davis (reach?)
Indiana- Bloomington
Illinois
Iowa
Lewis & Clark
Tulane
Wake Forest
Loyola Marymoun

Safer Choices:
Chapman
Pepperdine
University of San Francisco
University of San Diego

I feel like i'm being at least pretty realistic in this line up. But if i'm not, let me know.

I would also love to hear:

Shot at any of my reaches?

Do i have as good of a shot as I think i do at the middle section of schools?

Anyone think I can get some $$ from any of the safer schools?

Thanks, and I much appreciate any feedback


For my PSC 349 class, I have to write a research paper that is backed up with data from SPSS. I came up with the following research question:

What effect to ballot initiatives have on voter turnout?

My professor OK'd the question, but he told me to come see him to discuss how I would set up my research design, because that will affect how I state my hypotheses. I went to his office hours, but he was talking so fast and was in a rush. He told me that I need to control for affluence, and that I should have the states and the number of ballot initiatives in my data set (because I'll have to come up with my own -- there isn't one readily available in SPSS). I'm still confused about how I should set it up, though, and my professor has cancelled all of his office hours this week due to a family emergency.

For part I of the paper, I have to conduct a Literature Review on the subject. I'm in the process of doing that now, and that's coming along fine. I just need help formulating my research design and how I should actually state my hypotheses. Does anyone have any ideas? From the preliminary Lit Review research I've done this far, I plan to state that an increased number of ballot initiatives increases voter turnout. The only problem is that I need two hypotheses, or two causes (independent variables) for my topic (dependent variable).

Here are some of the instructions I received from my professor:
For the first part of the assignment which is described in this handout, your tasks are to develop a research question,
discuss the concept that is part of your research question and two others that explain your concept, discuss the
existing political science literature on this topic and then develop hypotheses that explain the relationships between
your concepts.
...
Finally, you need to identify two explanatory concepts you think might be causes of the concept in which you are
interested. For each of these concepts, discuss briefly why you think they explain your dependent concept. These
explanations should suggest two hypotheses. Please explicitly state your hypotheses at the end of this discussion,
using the template from class. Again, keep in mind you will be required to test these hypotheses for the second part
of the assignment so look in the datasets to see what data are available to you. In your paper for Part I, identify the
dataset you plan to use and the three specific variables that you will include in your model. Please be sure that you
are picking two explanatory concepts (independent variables) for the concept you seek to explain (dependent
variable).
In sum, the first part of your research assignment should include:
• Your research question, a description of why you are interested in this topic and why it is an important
question.
• A literature review of at least 5 scholarly articles that examine your dependent variable.
• A description of the relationships between your dependent variable and two other concepts that you think
might help explain variation in that variable.
• Two hypotheses formally stating the relationships between your variables.
• The dataset you plan to use and the three specific variables you will use for your model.

can someone please help me formulate my research design given this criteria? I'd go to my professor, but as I've said, his office hours are cancelled this week (and likely next week) due to a family emergency. Any help would be greatly appreciated. Thanks!!


When my boyfriend and I started dating and I somewhat put the moves on him first since he was 5 years younger and oh so shy. There were some bumps in the road at first, with girls trying to break us up, my best friends betraying me because I was going out with her best friend, my boyfriend and such. I said I love you first, and maybe a week later he said he loved me back. At first he said he didn't love me because he thought it was too soon and wanted to be sure. It was three months into the relationship. I have my own place, and so the 7 months that we have been together he has been staying with me, now we are moving out and he has nothing to offer into us moving in together except don't worry, I'll help you. Help me, what about me helping him. I opened up a savings account under our name and I put the majority of the money in there. I am the one who has more money to save buy furniture and he really has nothing to contribute except driving me around since I don't have a car. He is young, he is 23 and I am 27, is that a too big of a gap. I feel like I am taking the lead in the relationship and that does not make me feel sexy or special. He has no idea what he is doing and has a shit paying job, but that he loves, and goes to school part time. I already graduated. I love him so much but I feel like he's 5 steps behind me. I want someone to help me move forward not feel backward. I feel like I have been taking the initiative throughout the whole relationship. And when I try to explain this to him he cries and says he will soon get a good job and take care of me and he loves me so much and he knows he can't do it now but he wants to be able to provide for me and be the man that I want him to be. I am so sad because I love him so much and I know he loves me so much, and I just don't feel special. T.O.R.N>/....


as it always seems to be me that initiates when we see eachother, or any communication at all via text or phone. Honestly things are really lovely between us and i don't doubt her feelings. I'm just feeling a little bit resentful or at least put off by having to make all the moves, when it would feel really nice if she was to be like 'fancy doing something tonight', or sending a text saying 'hey, how are you'. She always responds to me and has never once turned me down when asking her out...just be nice if she took the initiative so that i would feel that it's not all my doing. Any women out there have any idea why this situation exists? Would love to understand better. Thanks for reading.


everything happen? especially when it comes to dating and relationships, boyfriend/girlfriend, etc.? why does the guy always have to be the one to take the first initiative when it comes to dating and relationships?
why does the guy always have to do the pursuing and chasing, make the first move, start a conversation, ask the girl out, etc.?
why has it always been that way?


So.. recently I started seeing a guy, really accidentally. They live in the same graduate apartment complex as I do, and it just started with an invitation to watch a movie. After that, we just ended up hanging out alot and spending time together - our time together was intense and we would stay up talking in bed for hours until dawn. We also didn't have sex; he suffered a strange episode in March he hasn't revealed to me yet, and I've waited and been patient for him. At one point, I asked him if we were daitng and his response was anything but clear. He said he liked me, felt that we had something more intimate than anything he'd experienced in a long time, but that he wouldn't call it dating, per se. It was still a riddle. On the other hand, he stated he enjoyed spending every moment with me. He just didn't want a label -- they complicated things. He also hasn't introduced me to his friends, because he doesn't to formalise it. He doesn't want a cage. Nonetheless, he says he doesn't want to fuck it up and lose me... and that this fear may be making him compromise to compensate. What's strange is that.. he said if I felt that was too wishy-washy and I wanted something else, we should talk - not to end things but to work it out. This I did - I called him and I told him my worries, that I didn't want to wait indefinitely for a commitment. He reassured me that he wasn't a person incapable of commitment, and that e felt like an "asshole" for not introducing me to his friends but that he's in an environment where not everyone would be ok with his being gay. I'm not so sure how to interpret this... seeing as he has gone out to gay bars plenty of times. Surely some of his friends wouldn't mind.

In the end, I find that I'm always the one to call.. set up times to hang out.. that I'm constantly having to solicit his attention. If he likes me as much as he says he does and he doesn't want to fuck it up and lose me, I don't understand his behavior. I just would wish he initiated a bit more, gave me a call, didn't have me arrange everything. He's a musician, so he's a bit flakey and a self-described carpe diem person by nature. I don't know how much his .. nature.. and how much is his feelings.. and how much is me.

I kinda want to know how to navigate this, and if I can, reasonbly and not in a needy way, get him to understand that.... a.) I want him to show some initiative.. I want him to be proactive in getting to see me since I often feel like if I don't call, he won't... b.) I want him to start slowly introducing me to his friends - I told him it's ok for now, but not forever; and c.) that well.. when you're "dating" someone.. it's somewhat incumbent upon you to give them a call at least once a week or so.. or when they call, to ask about when they're free next. The past two phone conversations I had were brief and 'just checking-in convo's" I made, but... he never asked me when I was available. I had to ask him later online when he would be free.
I should note that he said in our conversation.. he didn't want to "bring it into the real world" i.e.: make it real for aforementioned reasons. He enjoys the escapism he feels with me, he says. My fear is that... this can't sustain itself on just that. At some point, for this to go anywhere, he has to integrate into his life. Currently, he's going to a halloween party on Saturday night. I haven't gotten an invitation... I'm thinking I will give him a month to see if he can show any signs of progressing....


so this is not from over night. we've been dating for about a year now and it's not the first time I'm complaining about it. when we make love it's very "standardized", there is little variation. you guys might say "take initiative and show him better". the thing is, he knows better. he's been with women even way older then him before and i heared from his friends how exciting he's had it. why doesnt he do it with me? i am a little shy in terms of moaning very loudly and stuff like that, but still. he says he is totally satisfied with the way things are. I hate being the one always complaining abt stuff, esp when it comes to this.

i think (and i've told him that) i would be waaaaaay more turned on if he initiates sex for once. it's always me coming over to his place or telling him to come over to mine. i can't remember the last time (if there was one) when he called me up and said "come over right now", or when i was at his place, many times it happened that we didnt do nothing. and i would get very frustrated. If I let initiative up to him, I would slowly become a virgin again. LOL.

how can i get him to want me more? do you think that me complaining openly about my dissatisfaction will hurt our relationship? I don't know what to do anymore, pls help...


First of all by you just admitting to all this without rationalizations, excuses or divorce talk has already helped my anger toward you. Thank you. That doesn't mean it's all gone and it doesn't mean I'm ready to jump into anything with you.

I don't have any desire to start over with you yet John. It's taken a toll on me and my emotions big time. I waited and waited for all this shit. I told you I was unhappy and things continued. I told you the only way to save us was for me to get my space and time and be down here while I get my shit together and you get your shit together. That never happened. Us breaking up was inevitable with the past we had.

Yes we had great times, yes we have amazing chemistry, passion and love but John, all that gets buried when anger takes over.

I'm angry at a lot of things.
The past
The lies
The fights
The finances
The irresponsibility
The lack of communication
The lack of understanding me and my needs
The criticism of my life and my choices
The choices you made
And the fact you did take me for granted.

I can't promise anything of our future, to do so would be unfair to both you and me. I need to figure out what I want in life and the things I have been struggleing with for years. I'm not perfect, never claimed to be but I feel like there were way to many issues and I deserved better.

As far as me dating other people, I have zero interest John. I hope you know what I felt for you was sincere and I meant every word but every promise you broke, every day I waited for things to change and every lie/deception you got caught in chipped away at that. Then you would apologize, cry, tell me things would change and I would believe you and trust you and do it ALL OVER AGAIN. This time I can't. I suggest that with your masshealth you see a shrink. See it for yourself and everything you have gone through and are going through. It's free, one hour a week does wonders. It will also show me you are attempting to better yourself and by you bettering yourself WITHOUT me pushing or helping is a HUGE element. I want to be taken care of, I deserve it and I will get it. You can only take care of someone if you take care of yourself first.

I have missed you and I will miss you. I am proud of you for taking initiative and getting things together. When we meet for dinner and you tell me things that are going on I can promise by then I will leave the past behind us but I can't promise anything else.

Please be safe, stay strong and know that this girl wouldn't be emailing you if she didn't care about you or us.
she wrote this a month ago,I miss you terribly Johnny, I miss the way you smile and laugh, the way you look at me, the way you scrickle me and the way you annoyingly scratch the back of my head to give me split ends. I miss the way you joke and the way you roll up your retarded sleeves to your shirts. I miss the way you slurp hot coffee but stopped for my sake . I miss the way you say bless you proud of yourself that you remembered. I miss the way you get road rage.. ok fine.. I don’t miss that! Ha ha.. I miss the way your lips rest on each other when you sleep peacefully. I miss the way you wake me up by holding me and squeezing me unknowingly. I miss the way you shutter when you take cold showers and I miss your touch, smile and face. I miss you going down, rubbing me and making love to me. I miss you period.



This is hard for me too, I don’t want anyone but you and I love you more than anything I thought possible. I’m in Dunkin Donuts now, thinking of you and all th


If she's shy and maybe even nervous around you but always VERY nice to you and suddenly takes initiative, appears more confident, and starts to talk to you more?

If you were more of a quiet girl and you liked her, how would you respond? If you didn't like her, how would you respond?


Here's the question: Should people on welfare have to pay back the money a little at a time when they get a real job? Shouldn't it be just a loan.I know a few that used welfare for 5 plus years. Now are working making good money, I just think they should pay it back into the fund. I think if they knew they were going to have to pay it back, then they wouldn't take atvantage of it.

... and here's my answer that got deleted because it is "Hate Speech & Violence": Either that or we could kill them. The disadvantaged are extremely inconvenient and expensive, and in this economic climate, we probably can no longer afford such a luxury. Surley, killing the disadvantaged would dramatically ease tax burdens and that would undoubtedly stimulate the economy and create new jobs. Forcing humans into idle deprivation then making them pay back the expense of their minimal survival sounds nowhere near punitive enough to me and if we are truly serious about productivity then we will kill the unproductive to stimulate proper self-initiative.

... and these are my follow up questions:
1) Isn't parody an obvious form of criticism of that which it imitates and therefore something other than the thing it imitates, such as 'hate speech & violence'?
2) Why would any self-respecting conservative indulging in stereotypical latently violent hatred of the unfortunate and vulnerable object to hate & violence anyway? Isn't my response precisely the kind of reinforcing encouragement the latently violent and hateful conservative seeks with such a question?
3) Who is so literal that they fail to recognize such obvious parody?


The incident happened when Randy Orton hit Cena with a microphone and started Vince McMahon ordered Cena to be cleaned up immediately after seeing the blood. WWE’s John Laurinaitis along with trainers rushed to ringside to clean him up, as WWE currently has a very strict “no blood” policy as part of their TV-PG programming initiative.

I saw this on a website.

There's a no blood policy?

What do you think?


I think Wonder Woman is real cool. I saw the animated film and I liked it a lot. Those Amazons didn't take any mess from anybody! They sure knew how to stand up for themselves physically and emotionally. I think in some ways this character really should show the courage that lots of women display on a daily basis as far as tackling the stuff they have to deal with including parenting and employment and just getting through each day. I wasn't turned off by the character at all. If anything it was very interesting to me in a lot of ways. The part when she beat up those thugs in the alley was awesome! It just showed Diana is not one to be messed with. She is more than capable of handling herself. Still, I think the courage and the initiative of the character to tackle issues head on will probably be more memorable to some people than the physical strength because not everyone has the conditioning to lift a car or a couch, but everyone has the capability to show courage and compassion for others and respect for themselves and stand up for themselves when things go wrong. I don't think the cartoon diminished men socially at all, rather it helped them to have a different appreciation for females as people and human beings and I think encouraged getting to understand people personally and hearing what they have to say rather than making assumptions.


Hold your breath for the latest 'government scheme'.

Are seven year olds capable of grasping the ideas?

At 14 I was barely aware of 'careers', 'jobs' and 'professions'. But apparently the powers that be think it is a worth-wile initiative.

Can seven year olds be successfully guided into careers they may or may not pursue 9-14 years later on in life? Or is it a constructive introduction to the working world?
Palindromic - my concern I suppose is the fact that kids are already overburdened with exams - should we really be giving 'careers advice'? As someone else says, the basics of the working environment might be helpful, but not 'guidance'.


Would a federal government initiative that provides voters with lower income taxes and grocery coupons get the American public to vote more in non-presidential elections?
(In addition to local politicians talking to the people more often?)
I need at least 10 people to answer this question!!! If you disagree, offer a better voter initiative, please.





Is it good or bad for students? Why? And are they already active?


i have been dating this gy for a few months now. Its still casual.I noticed that he really doesn't take initiative, like he asks me before he does alot of things. For ex. The last time i was at his house when i got ready to leave he asked me if he could get a peck or something, and i gave him a kiss. It was our first kiss. If i go over his house he always ask what i wanna do. One time i was at his house and he asked what i wanna do and i said lets see a movie and he asked like twice, if i was sure i wanted to see the movie, even after he already ordered the tickets online.and even when he wants to see me he wants to make sure i really want to come. He told me he liked aggressive women. Is it just that he wants me to be happy or what? He told me on our first date that he would do whatever i want


Ok i already know this is going to be long so bear with me people, please it's important.
Ok so I guess i "used" to have this best friend Chase, we got into fights and didn't talk for a while. then we would talk and then we wouldn't. it just went like taht all throughout high school. (were juniors now) and now all of a sudden this year he just completely ignores me and never comes around. i heard from two of my friends that its because I change friends constantly and that I don't care about anyone unless they're my friend now. which isn't true. i've had friends all throughout middle school, heck elementary school! and I admit I have lost 2 special friends and some not sooo special friendships recently. (the first because she started being a bitch to me, the second because of guy issues, she hated the guy i was with, i broke up with him, things never got better) anyways Idk I'm just kinda really angry at him for letting me out in the cold and having my two friends tell me and him not have the guts to tell me. Yes I admit at the begining of the year I was caught up and didn't talk to him much because I was making new friendships wih three other people. But I still stayed where I was, I'm still friends with the people I was friends with last year, except for him and my three new ones.

UGH i'm just confused wether or not I should talk to him since it's been nearly 3 monthes since school started and he doesn't care about me anymore. He deleted me off his myspace and facebook. and I just don't wanna persue something that's a lost cause.
Everyone at my table is blaming me for him not around anymore. Is it my fault? But see another problem is that he's ignoring a friend of mine and he was the one that brought her to the table last year, and she's at least taking the initiative to talk to him, but he's not even really responding to her... should she talk to him too?

so many questions.
is us loosing the friendship because of me?
should I talk to him?
what should I do?